Kev, I think your should have looked at the hate mail or whatever it was and said to yourself
“good she’s venting if she needs to”. Hopefully it helps her . That’s what a gentleman would do. If you think about her at all, you must only hope for the best for her unless you are unkind. Unless you are crazy, eventually you wan’t begrudge her for her failings, so get started now. Don’t get worked up about it. If she stalks call the cops. Rehashing your version of who she is is a big mistake. Let G-d deal with that. None of your business anymore. Don’t let her be your ex, let her be your “prior girlfriend” or a ” woman you dated for a while” . it’s nothing anymore ,so treat it that way. Rehashing over what a stupid and unworthy person your “ex” is , you couldn’t do worse than that. Might as well have married her.

If you are a good catch in your mind ,just think about that and go get someone new. It’s easy at your age if you are. Women want to meet you …just get someone new and for god’s sake don’t harp on your “ex” to her, unless you want to make sure she isn’t hoping for a second date.