[quote=kev374]Say you were in a 2-3 year relationship and loved the other person, had good chemistry etc. but are suddenly told one day that they have a potentially huge financial liability (say $80-90k!), they claim they did not know about this as well, in addition you knew that the in-laws were of poor character. Would you still marry this person and accept their baggage?

I guess the general question is… how much pre-existing monetary and emotional baggage are you willing to accept for you to be comfortable with marriage?

Is is ANY amount because you love the other person? Or does love NOT conquer all?[/quote]

love is for suckers. Marriage is l I keep buying a house. You should really be into the house but only if it’s a good deal and you must always be ready to walk away.