@bearishgurl, I don’t think that was me as I was never engaged.

My situation is as described in the previous post but I already broke up with her after a lot of thought and discussing it with various people who told me that marriage has it’s own stresses and challenges in it regardless of how perfect the union and chemistry is and adding more baggage to it at the outset is only going to add that much more stress to the equation.

I guess i’m just trying to find solace in the fact that I did break up with someone I loved for what I think are justifiable reasons but sometimes I have some self-doubt and guilt if what I did was a bit superficial although a huge number of people tell me that it’s quite reasonable to not want to take on a burden like that since I am debt free.