Follow , or at least navigate towards your bliss , if it makes money, good, if it doesn’t, make the adjustments you have to to live within your means in a way that is responsible to your conscience. Do this with skilled foresight as much as possible, so that hindsight doesn’t bite you in the ass. That’s it.

Do your fair share. A lot of people don’t come from places or have personal blessings that make achieving the american dream as easy as falling off a bicycle, I see and have seen a lot of people in life who could do better for themselves, their families and their communities, if they were only willing to take the attitude of doing their fair share. It helps if families would embrace that attitude for the other members too…less of those suicides from the well to do class and less of other social ills across all class lines.