[quote=scaredyclassic]Wait a minute… In ca r’s defense, women put higher levels of energy into the c task. My wife spends a weekend alone at home with the kids and she us wiped out. Me, not even fatigued. Why? I’m kind of lame. It’s more like a frat house. I don’t know. I expend less mental and phys. Energies. By our nature’s the role is going to such more out of SAM than SAHD.

I suspect it has to do with the ache to be with them…[/quote]

You are over generalizing. Not that there isn’t some truth to it. …but there are plenty of things that my wife does half measures or not at all and I do with a lot more diligence an depth….just different things. I would think that’s pretty typical…Anyway, someone had to bring some balance to the thing.