[quote=FlyerInHi]Marriage is an anachronism. The whole concept should be abolished.

The industry should be deregulated. Government should get out of the way so people can innovate and create individualized contracts that work for them.[/quote]

My decision not to take the sole breadwinner path was in part because of the government, I wanted to be liberated from the things you guys are legitimately terrified of and from Carenters man v. woman society which I think is prehistoric fantasy and manipulation. It is so condescending the way she says, “men are coming around “, when there is something she likes. ….but I am not in complete disagreement with divorce law especially where kids are concerned. If you want to marry some weak foreigner or some plastic trophy wife, I think there would be lots of risk there, individual contracts would be cool, should be legal, prostitution is probably what you would get but legal and of a little longer term, cool….but if you find a modern woman who can stand on her own two feet , then you will be o.k. too. If you want the other stuff consider you are going to probably pay for it and get on with it….but you love your money too much…what would everyone think of you when the inevitable divorce rip-off occurs? How would you ever recover from your self-fullfilling prophesy of doom that your brotherhood loves so much? That would be worse than dealing with the stigma of being an unwanted man with dogs.