I am so sorry to hear about your wife’s situation. May you and your family stay strong and enjoy every moment of every day together, and I sincerely hope you have many happy days/years together. None of us ever knows when our time is up, even if we’re perfectly healthy today. No matter how hard some people try to convince themselves that they have control over it all, it is 90% luck — I’ve seen too much to think otherwise. Fuck cancer. :([/quote]
Damn right!! The difference is she is absolutely facing, we all know we are going to die, but in the back of our minds we’ll make it to 75 or whatever. Whereas the Stage IV person is having to face it head on for a while.
