Just my take…it may miss the mark. I had an agent doing the same things once. I just ignored him and told him what to do when I felt like it…that worked out too, but I was pushing low ball offers and had lots of construction knowledge. I wasn’t worried about him trying to bury issues to close.

If you are not comfortable ignoring her when you want to and you are not sure that you can analyze a house and house deal for yourself, I suggest getting rid of her. She sounds like she is competent in closing or trying to. Why would you want to be in an escrow with her when she is so pushy now? Find someone who is competent in caring about and taking care of Ricechex’s goals and pace. There is at the very least someone who has the sense not to be pushy when you say you are in “no hurry”, and it doesn’t mean they are not competent.