Completely understand your thinking with regard to keeping the home in RSF, but it’s just what we want, and we do have lots of extended family and friends–not to mention kids who have kids–so we still need the space.
Also, the price was right 20+ years ago–when we were in our 30’s–and there’s no way we could even come close to matching it today in any other location.
Looks like you’ve received some wonderful suggestions here, and I wish you all of the best–and definitely check out La Costa–especially the more estabished neighborhoods.