I hear everything you say but I want him to do what ever he is truly passionate about. I dont expect money to be an issue for him or my daughter as adults and am taking steps to ensure that. My parents worked hard and built a great foundation for their kids and each of us is adding to it. He loves drawing and designing all kinds of things not just cool fancy things. He will most likely end up in some kind of technology role or architecture given who he is. My daughter i have no idea about yet but whatever it is she will be extraordinarily happy. She is one of those kids that always has a big smile on her face.