[quote=BoomerAang]Do some activities together. I play billiards when I talk with guy friends. We go to bars together, bowling, etc. Just find some random activity that you can do together when you meet. K1 in carlsbad? Wine-tasting, microbrewery or bars?[/quote]
I agree.
Drinking heavily makes those social engagements more interesting and less fattening (if you can remember to avoid La Posta at 3am on Saturday night).