I’d have to agree with AN, having LIVED in the city (SF), it’s great if you have the time/money/disposal income to go out all the time and stuff, but once the kids come, I think the majority will move for more space and quiet in the suburbs.

I don’t have to post it, but there are tons upon tons of articles about SF not having any families at all. Also, when you have kids, do you really even WANT to go out and party? You’re usually too old for that and have so little time. All IMO of course. I hate cities with their pollution, noise, vandals, partiers every thursday night coming home friday morning at 2am, etc…

Glad to live in the suburbs.

Also, I think women tend to like living in the city more than men. Men like garages, cars, don’t care about being seen as much (after marriage and kids of course) so the “city” offers very little…IMO again. I’m sure you can find 1 “guy” who likes the city, but most would rather spend the money on other things IMO. Cities tend to also be more expensive to live.

Gotta admit dining is a lot better, but take a baby to any fine dining place and it’s a nightmare in stressful dining. Take out baby!