I don’t really see a lot of value in staying in SanDiego.
I am here just because I have a well paying job.

I always tell my friends: You are well off in low expense areas like TX, Carolinas.., don’t come to CA

Look at the amount of people( eg in Piggington ) discussing housing here because of the high cost.

You would find people in other parts of the country engaged in some better activities.