[quote=sdduuuude]
Just tell her to ignore the brats, go find the nice kids and play with them. It isn’t that difficult, really.

As for yourself, FLU – do the same with the parents. Don’t focus on all the Carmel Valley social posturing. Just find some nice people and conect with them. I guarantee you they are there.[/quote]

Amen, brother. That’s exactly how we’ve played it since we’ve been here in CV. We’ve enjoyed every minute of it and our daughter gets along just fine. It’s all good.