[quote=jstoesz]one other thought dave, since you seem to really be focused on man’s innate hypocrisy. I agree with you that everyone is pathetically hypocritical. Those who have lofty goals in life are the most hypocritical.

But I do not want to intend to be lame or treacherous so that I can avoid being hypocritical.

And to be even cheesier than I have been already…

What is worse, failing at makings one’s mark, or making your mark so easy that you do not need to aim?[/quote]

Blather,blather,blather.

You are probably hitting on something in there though. I would guess you are hitting around the topic of intimacy. Maximum quality intimacy is found somewhere near the kind of a relationship people often get married over. Great intimacy is a good drug and a good medicine at the same time.Congratulations and enjoy it, but don’t make it what it isn’t.