I hope the OP and anyone reading these comments will consider sources. Ask a realtor who sells in San Diego about San Diego and I think the response would be highly predictable. San Diego “The land where the Sun always shines.”

Is San Diego so nice that it’s worth considerable personal or family sacrifices? Not IMO.

There’s a lot of marketing behind San Diego –

Welcome to the Grand Illusion
Come on in and see what’s happening
Pay the price, get your tickets for the show…