it’s nto like im sort of cutthroat operator, I’ve never bought a house, have no debt, eschew debt, adn if I can’t buya a damned house in about the next three years i probably won’t because i don’t knwo that I’d be comfortable with how mcuh longer id intend to live in it. i still think anyone who doesn’t maximize their family financial situation because they think they’re being honorable is borderline insane.