[quote=desmond]”50% want to cheat but can’t (unattractive, too busy, etc.)”

That is BS, want to cheat? How about 50% have a fantasy about cheating, but don’t. Put me in that group. [/quote]

Personally, I don’t deny myself much that I want that’s legal. In my view, you only live once – why deny yourself things that you want (that are legal, of course)? My motto is that when you’re on your death bed you’re not going to regret the things you did, but rather the things you didn’t do. But it takes all kinds.

[quote=desmond]
btw, why would men in that category spend their lives trying to convince their family they don’t cheat, when the don’t cheat?[/quote]

You misinterpreted what I wrote. The men in “that” (50%) category don’t spend their lives trying to convince their family they don’t cheat – they spend their lives trying to convince their families that they aren’t even INTERESTED in cheating. Apparently that’s your category. When you tell your family about your “fantasy” of cheating (“But I’m not acting on it!!”) and they whip out a cake to celebrate, let me know. I’d like to be there.