ok, ricechex. funny is necessary but not sufficient. think about it; froma guy’s perspective, you know when he gets more women? when he ALREADY HAS A GIRLFRIEND!!!! that’s because he’s confident, he’s having sex, he isn’t nice, he doesn’t need anything, he’s more aloof, cooler, more confident and usually teases and messes with other women because he deson’t need anything from them.
take away many guy’s girlfriends, and they smell faintly of desperation. they try to act nice, ingratiating etc.
disaster.
act like you don’t need someone, and they’re interested.
act nice and available–no good. it is a fundamental truth of life.
the house I just made an offer on? I WANT IT WAY MORE now that I’m a backup.
