i like that theory. Groupie sounds a lot friendlier than “stalker”. What the groupie wants is the power and money of the mark; the stalker wants the womb. Men instinctively probably dont look to women as a source of power and money, so less male groupies? women probably instinctively don’t want any particular sperm so badly that they fall into the realm of stalkerdom. as women accrue more assets, maybe male groupies will evolve. Although it’s a hefty price to pay; i cannot picture myself aspiring to be a male groupie. however i wouldnt be averse to having married into some money…

wanting to sleep with many women is not deviant. not wanting to sleep with lots of women is deviant.