I understand that unfortunately women are just genetically designed to breed and that urge is in thier background by no fault but nature. However, despite the joy that children bring, I see what a sacrifice, burden and trouble it can be. Society and governmnet stress family values. But I personally think it is just a trap for women to keep them down. Sorry. I know it is contrary to what many women think.

I applaud women who are achieve the balance in raising children, caring for a husband and being gainfully employed. They are super women. Hopefully they are fortunate enough to find a man who has that same desire – and there are those who share that interest out there, who do not shirk responsibility and genuinely believe in the family unit.

I pity the children who are used in trapping either man or woman. I don’t respect the women who trap men. I also do not feel sympathy for the men who cry about it. Own some of the responsibility. If you can’t pay, don’t play.