[quote=UCGal]
Maybe it’s just my circle of friends… [/quote]

Yup, it’s just your circle of friends. The fact that 2% of women went down this road 30 years ago, but now it’s 10% – I’m just throwing out numbers – still makes it the exception, rather than the rule. Again – look around – this is still rather unusual. Don’t get me wrong – I love it – but it’s still the exception. When more than 50% of all women are having children and not wanting child support, then we can talk about what the exception is and what the rule is. Until then…