This post has caused others to call me:
“a fat ass”
“busbody”
“lonely retired person with nothing else to do”
“stay at home something”

The busybody response was only in defense of being called out for my third grade education.

You say this man was rude to you, but you also say two weeks ago a neighbor was screaming at him to move his truck and “Some of the people in the other complex gave him the business too”. By the time you nicely asked him your question you were probably the tenth person to call him out on it. Do you really expect him to be happy and grateful for your suggestions when he has been dealing with this for some time.

“Furthermore, he has a regular SUV which has a super loud exhaust (do you add those to cars?) and his GF’s car alarm goes off 1-2X a day, usually at 2AM or so when a cat sits on it. These people are not making any friends”. Am I crazy or is this… How can she help what her car does in the middle of the night? Perhaps the fault should lie with the cat owner and now you want him to literally adjust or sell his car? I may not be the sharpest tool in shed, but for Pete’s sake.