I am stifling lots of giggles on this thread. Some of you guys are so funny!

Personally, I think it’s selfish to have even 1 child alone by choice. I think a child needs a mother and a father, period. So, you can guess how I feel about someone having 14 kids (10 of which are <=2) alone by choice. On top of that 3 of them are disabled? And the newest 8 are premature and it's highly likely some will have either developmental delays, learning disabilities, or perhaps physical disabilities that would require more attention than the average healthy child.