Like make them pay for groceries or 1 utility bill or something. Not that you need the money…Make sure that they know this isn’t a “free” ride. Also, this makes him go out a find a job and at least do something then just sit at home all day.
You better make sure things are ok with your hubby before doing this. It’s one of those things that would tick me off frankly if someone was going to just come and stay and have no plans of moving on.
Personally, I admire a woman who think of their own family first before any extended families.