Cabal,
It looks like the consensus is for the low but realistic end of listing agent compensation, 1% to 1.5%. This should be readily obtainable with a decent and independent agent. You mention paying top dollar and I don’t see why you should pay any more than that especially since you are flexible as to the agent’s style and status.
There is nothing wrong with starting with a 2.5% cooperating broker offer. Many buyers are taking control of searches with sdlookup and similar and will make the agent show them your property or get another one who will.
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