It is sad to read several posters claim they choose to be single to afford san diego.
There are people coming to this country (even san diego) everyday with a couple of kids and a few hundred dollars in their pockets. They live with with another family and work their butts off until they can get their own apartment. They can’t afford cable or to take the kids to the mall and buy them ipods, $80 jeans, or $4 coffee drinks, so they sit at home after school around the kitchen table and study.
Their kids will get a college degree, get a good job, get married, stay married and buy a great house in foreclosure from some single guy that makes 150k a year but can’t seem to make ends meet.