There’s no blame here. It’s all freedom of choice. I’ll take the freedom any day over the alternative. People are free to succeed as well as fail. What screws this up and prolongs the pain is the govts intervention into the process. They mean well, but that’s another subject. It’s just a stall tactic as the Titanic heads towards the iceberg. Who cares whether anyone likes it or not? I dont like death, but that doesnt mean it’s going away or that I can change it.
It’s all about taking the correct action given the situation in order to accomplish what ever your goal happens to be. That’s all. End of story. Judging it is a waste of time and a fools errand.