“I guess what I’m saying is I don’t believe you’re having the best year ever”

“Slow down, I was just asking you some questions.”

Those don’t jibe.

I’m not usually one to referee, but PS, I think you should apologize to sdrealtor for attacking his integrity (“I don’t believe you” = “you’re lying” = attack on integrity) before he says something he regrets. THEN your “humble” request to keep things positive might carry a bit more weight.