Come on now, let’s not let this post disintegrate to insults. Marion inadvertently posted a topic that will lead to good advice for her.

Divorce can bring out the worst in people so hopefully someone will read this thread and learn how not to act in the event of divorce.

Acting with restraint now will yield future dividends.

Acting with malice now will create angry children, preclude future peaceful attendance at what should be happy events for the kids, and set the background for irredeemable consequences.

p.s. Marion, that’s pretty sad that your parents are involved in this also and that they are taking sides against your sisters and that your side of the family is being pitted against each other. No matter what, families never see the entire picture clearly and this is a prime example of lack of restraint.