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December 18, 2012 at 11:24 AM #20390December 18, 2012 at 11:43 AM #756570RenParticipant
Partly in an attempt to counter those kinds of people, but also to give karma a hand, I make a point of giving nice people priority. If someone comes to me needing help with something, and they’re genuinely good peeps, they get put on top of the pile.
December 18, 2012 at 11:44 AM #756572scaredyclassicParticipantBut u were nice to be a witness
Therefore people don’t suck
December 18, 2012 at 1:20 PM #756590sdduuuudeParticipant[quote=Ren]Partly in an attempt to counter those kinds of people, but also to give karma a hand, I make a point of giving nice people priority. If someone comes to me needing help with something, and they’re genuinely good peeps, they get put on top of the pile.[/quote]
“Be good to good people” is one of my favorite philosophies. But sometimes, it’s hard to tell.
December 18, 2012 at 2:34 PM #756599zkParticipant[quote=sdduuuude]
“Be good to good people” is one of my favorite philosophies. But sometimes, it’s hard to tell.[/quote]
Interesting.
It seems to me that the philosophy that I frequently see being followed is more like, “be good to people who have pleasant personalities.”
When you first meet someone, that’s usually all you have to go on. But later on, when you get to know someone, it still seems to hold. I know people who are funny and sociable but who are mean or dishonest or conniving. I know people who are awkward and not smooth or sociable but who have great integrity, are very nice, honorable and unselfish. The former are, almost without exception, treated better than the latter.
The former’s transgressions are quickly forgotten about or glossed over. While the latter’s gaffes are talked about, exaggerated, or blown out of proportion.
December 18, 2012 at 3:32 PM #756602flyerParticipantReally glad to hear you took the time to help this guy out, flu. It could make all the difference in how this works out for him.
I’ve stopped to be a witness in a couple of situations, and it did effect the outcome for the innocent party.
In all aspects of life, “what goes around, comes around,” and that works both ways. I’ve seen this proven out time after time.
December 18, 2012 at 3:36 PM #756603mike92104ParticipantThis reminds me of my first and only time serving on a Jury. A lady had backed out of a parking spot into another lady’s truck, and then decided to sue her for medical expenses and pain and suffering for something like $10,000. (It was a long time ago). The other lady counter sued for the damages to her truck. to add to the circus environment of the case, the plaintiffs lawyer was a midget who had to pull the lectern mic down to him while standing next to it while speaking to us. We not only threw out the plaintiffs case, but also added a very generous award to the defendant above and beyond what she asked for.
December 18, 2012 at 3:41 PM #756604ucodegenParticipant[quote=mike92104]to add to the circus environment of the case, the plaintiffs lawyer was a midget who had to pull the lectern mic down to him while standing next to it while speaking to us.[/quote]Midget is no longer the politically correct word. They are called height challenged, or vertically challenged.☺
December 18, 2012 at 4:37 PM #756607scaredyclassicParticipantDid the small lawyer make self deprecating jokes to try to endear himself to the jury?
December 18, 2012 at 6:20 PM #756608HobieParticipantThe older I get, the more I am convinced, ‘what goes around comes around’. Sometimes it takes a little time, but it is worth the wait. I’ve got stories..
On a similar note, it only takes 1 jerk to ruin what 100 good things that happened. Keep positive.
December 18, 2012 at 6:34 PM #756609SK in CVParticipantAs Clare Boothe Luce said….no good deed goes unpunished.
December 18, 2012 at 8:43 PM #756616mike92104Participant[quote=squat300]Did the small lawyer make self deprecating jokes to try to endear himself to the jury?[/quote]
He should have, but instead played it dead pan. One other funny thing was his client was an unusually tall woman as well. Needless to say, I haven’t been as quick to perform my “civic duty” since then.
December 18, 2012 at 8:45 PM #756617mike92104Participant[quote=ucodegen][quote=mike92104]to add to the circus environment of the case, the plaintiffs lawyer was a midget who had to pull the lectern mic down to him while standing next to it while speaking to us.[/quote]Midget is no longer the politically correct word. They are called height challenged, or vertically challenged.☺[/quote]
I am not, nor have ever claimed to be, a politically correct person.
December 18, 2012 at 8:50 PM #756618FormerOwnerParticipantI think MOST people are decent but there is definitely a certain percentage of self-centered jerks in our midst. In addition, a lot of the newer cars and SUV’s have HORRIBLE visibility and are driven by distracted drivers. I pretty much pay 100% attention to everything going on around me in all directions anytime I am in my car; even if I am stopped at a light. I NEVER EVER drive beside anyone – I’m either passing them or they’re passing me or I keep back a little in case they realize at the 13th hour that they’re about to miss their turn and swerve over into my lane. I also try to park in places in parking lots where I can get in and out as quickly as possible to minimize the odds of someone backing into me. I love walking so I don’t mind if it’s a couple hundred extra feet. All of the above is just part of how I drive and is no big deal for me at all. Much easier in my mind to avoid dealing with a smashed up car and wasting my time at the body shop because some idiot hit my car. I think people get into trouble when they assume everyone else is a good alert driver and has a car that they can actually see out of. Oh, and I witnessed an accidenty recently as well; lady realized she was about to miss her turn and swerved over into the lane to her left – only problem was, another car was driving along side her at the time.
December 18, 2012 at 8:56 PM #756620Allan from FallbrookParticipant[quote=FormerOwner]I think MOST people are decent but there is definitely a certain percentage of self-centered jerks in our midst. In addition, a lot of the newer cars and SUV’s have HORRIBLE visibility and are driven by distracted drivers. [/quote]
I remember heading into the intersection at Winchester and Ynez (in Temecula) on a just-turned green light, when a big red Suburban blew a red and just about T-boned me. Well-coiffed blonde in the driver’s seat, yapping away on a cell phone, with a whole brood of squalling chilluns in the back.
I lay on the horn and she flips me off, while mouthing “Eff you” through her window. As she blows past, I notice the Jesus fish and a Linfield Christian School bumper sticker.
Nice.
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