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You are right; the French definition of bourgeois is indeed a class below the aristocracy. I was using the term in the way it is used in America. Rich, spoiled, pampered elite. That is a bastardization of the original term but I believe most posters understand my meaning. If that isn’t apparent you may remove bourgeois from my post. That should clear it up.
You say you have dated a lot of women, but my post was from the standpoint of married women with children. Again, it makes sense you cannot grasp what Raptor is going through. You have not walked a mile in his shoes. I have, so I understand. My wife is not a pampered, spoiled, sheltered whiner who expects to be treated like royalty. She just wants to buy a house to provide stability for her family. Like I said in the original post, it is a great assumption to place that type of label on someone you don’t know just because they have the money to buy a big house. You don’t agree with that?