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Participant[quote=AN]Fair enough. By that definition, Eastlake and other eastern/newer area of Chula Vista are also bedroom communities. Since they’re about the same distance to Downtown as PQ.[/quote]
91914 at 18-20 mi. and 91915 at 20-22 mi. are NOT as far away from dtn. SD as PQ. However, the “hassle factor” due to surface-street traffic and the SR-125 “toll-road” confers these two zips to “bedroom-status” in my mind.
I will reply to the rest of your post on my “Wealth Distribution” thread.
Participant[quote=AN]Fair enough. By that definition, Eastlake and other eastern/newer area of Chula Vista are also bedroom communities. Since they’re about the same distance to Downtown as PQ.[/quote]
91914 at 18-20 mi. and 91915 at 20-22 mi. are NOT as far away from dtn. SD as PQ. However, the “hassle factor” due to surface-street traffic and the SR-125 “toll-road” confers these two zips to “bedroom-status” in my mind.
I will reply to the rest of your post on my “Wealth Distribution” thread.
Participant[quote=citydweller]One of the biggest changes in my thinking that has brought me peace of mind is the realization that it is not my job to ensure that others are happy. Nor is it my job to impart my “wisdom” to others on how to live their lives (yes, I do see the irony considering that I am now trying to impart my so-called wisdom to you). I cannot over emphasize what a feeling of relief it was to no longer feel that it was my responsibility to “fix” everyone else.
Just relax and realize that life is really quite simple. All you have to do is show up. You do not need to impress anyone (even yourself). If you are breathing you are living, it doesn’t get any more simple than that.[/quote]
Well put, citydweller. I have a co-dependent streak which I have to fight off. It took me a long while to realize that other adults need to go down whatever road they must, BY THEMSELVES, to figure out how to proceed with a problem. There’s really no need for “bearishgurl, the coach” or “Cabal, the go-to person” to be constantly in the background picking up the pieces.
This applies to a lesser extent to teenagers and those 18-30 year olds who already “know it all.” But we need to be there for them if/when they seek our counsel.
Exc. advice.
Participant[quote=citydweller]One of the biggest changes in my thinking that has brought me peace of mind is the realization that it is not my job to ensure that others are happy. Nor is it my job to impart my “wisdom” to others on how to live their lives (yes, I do see the irony considering that I am now trying to impart my so-called wisdom to you). I cannot over emphasize what a feeling of relief it was to no longer feel that it was my responsibility to “fix” everyone else.
Just relax and realize that life is really quite simple. All you have to do is show up. You do not need to impress anyone (even yourself). If you are breathing you are living, it doesn’t get any more simple than that.[/quote]
Well put, citydweller. I have a co-dependent streak which I have to fight off. It took me a long while to realize that other adults need to go down whatever road they must, BY THEMSELVES, to figure out how to proceed with a problem. There’s really no need for “bearishgurl, the coach” or “Cabal, the go-to person” to be constantly in the background picking up the pieces.
This applies to a lesser extent to teenagers and those 18-30 year olds who already “know it all.” But we need to be there for them if/when they seek our counsel.
Exc. advice.
Participant[quote=citydweller]One of the biggest changes in my thinking that has brought me peace of mind is the realization that it is not my job to ensure that others are happy. Nor is it my job to impart my “wisdom” to others on how to live their lives (yes, I do see the irony considering that I am now trying to impart my so-called wisdom to you). I cannot over emphasize what a feeling of relief it was to no longer feel that it was my responsibility to “fix” everyone else.
Just relax and realize that life is really quite simple. All you have to do is show up. You do not need to impress anyone (even yourself). If you are breathing you are living, it doesn’t get any more simple than that.[/quote]
Well put, citydweller. I have a co-dependent streak which I have to fight off. It took me a long while to realize that other adults need to go down whatever road they must, BY THEMSELVES, to figure out how to proceed with a problem. There’s really no need for “bearishgurl, the coach” or “Cabal, the go-to person” to be constantly in the background picking up the pieces.
This applies to a lesser extent to teenagers and those 18-30 year olds who already “know it all.” But we need to be there for them if/when they seek our counsel.
Exc. advice.
Participant[quote=citydweller]One of the biggest changes in my thinking that has brought me peace of mind is the realization that it is not my job to ensure that others are happy. Nor is it my job to impart my “wisdom” to others on how to live their lives (yes, I do see the irony considering that I am now trying to impart my so-called wisdom to you). I cannot over emphasize what a feeling of relief it was to no longer feel that it was my responsibility to “fix” everyone else.
Just relax and realize that life is really quite simple. All you have to do is show up. You do not need to impress anyone (even yourself). If you are breathing you are living, it doesn’t get any more simple than that.[/quote]
Well put, citydweller. I have a co-dependent streak which I have to fight off. It took me a long while to realize that other adults need to go down whatever road they must, BY THEMSELVES, to figure out how to proceed with a problem. There’s really no need for “bearishgurl, the coach” or “Cabal, the go-to person” to be constantly in the background picking up the pieces.
This applies to a lesser extent to teenagers and those 18-30 year olds who already “know it all.” But we need to be there for them if/when they seek our counsel.
Exc. advice.
Participant[quote=citydweller]One of the biggest changes in my thinking that has brought me peace of mind is the realization that it is not my job to ensure that others are happy. Nor is it my job to impart my “wisdom” to others on how to live their lives (yes, I do see the irony considering that I am now trying to impart my so-called wisdom to you). I cannot over emphasize what a feeling of relief it was to no longer feel that it was my responsibility to “fix” everyone else.
Just relax and realize that life is really quite simple. All you have to do is show up. You do not need to impress anyone (even yourself). If you are breathing you are living, it doesn’t get any more simple than that.[/quote]
Well put, citydweller. I have a co-dependent streak which I have to fight off. It took me a long while to realize that other adults need to go down whatever road they must, BY THEMSELVES, to figure out how to proceed with a problem. There’s really no need for “bearishgurl, the coach” or “Cabal, the go-to person” to be constantly in the background picking up the pieces.
This applies to a lesser extent to teenagers and those 18-30 year olds who already “know it all.” But we need to be there for them if/when they seek our counsel.
Exc. advice.
Participant[quote=sandiegojeff]If they are putting signs in the yard advertising homes for sale don’t they have to be licensed with the CA Dept of RE?[/quote]
sandiegojeff, check the Fictitious Business Names (FBN) Index at the Clerk/Recorder’s Office for the name of the proprietor of this business. Then check those names on the DRE website for Broker/Salesperson licenses. Then you will have your answer.
Participant[quote=sandiegojeff]If they are putting signs in the yard advertising homes for sale don’t they have to be licensed with the CA Dept of RE?[/quote]
sandiegojeff, check the Fictitious Business Names (FBN) Index at the Clerk/Recorder’s Office for the name of the proprietor of this business. Then check those names on the DRE website for Broker/Salesperson licenses. Then you will have your answer.
Participant[quote=sandiegojeff]If they are putting signs in the yard advertising homes for sale don’t they have to be licensed with the CA Dept of RE?[/quote]
sandiegojeff, check the Fictitious Business Names (FBN) Index at the Clerk/Recorder’s Office for the name of the proprietor of this business. Then check those names on the DRE website for Broker/Salesperson licenses. Then you will have your answer.
Participant[quote=sandiegojeff]If they are putting signs in the yard advertising homes for sale don’t they have to be licensed with the CA Dept of RE?[/quote]
sandiegojeff, check the Fictitious Business Names (FBN) Index at the Clerk/Recorder’s Office for the name of the proprietor of this business. Then check those names on the DRE website for Broker/Salesperson licenses. Then you will have your answer.
Participant[quote=sandiegojeff]If they are putting signs in the yard advertising homes for sale don’t they have to be licensed with the CA Dept of RE?[/quote]
sandiegojeff, check the Fictitious Business Names (FBN) Index at the Clerk/Recorder’s Office for the name of the proprietor of this business. Then check those names on the DRE website for Broker/Salesperson licenses. Then you will have your answer.
Participant[quote=bearishgurl] . . . The areas hard-hit by foreclosures were 91913 and 91915, and, to a lesser extent, 91914 (no MR). . . [/quote]
I stand corrected. 91914 encompasses MR areas (“Eastlake Greens” to be termed 2022 and “San Miguel Ranch” to be termed approx. 2035)
91914 Rolling Hills Ranch (“RHR”) and “Salt Creek” do NOT have MR.
Participant[quote=bearishgurl] . . . The areas hard-hit by foreclosures were 91913 and 91915, and, to a lesser extent, 91914 (no MR). . . [/quote]
I stand corrected. 91914 encompasses MR areas (“Eastlake Greens” to be termed 2022 and “San Miguel Ranch” to be termed approx. 2035)
91914 Rolling Hills Ranch (“RHR”) and “Salt Creek” do NOT have MR.
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