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December 5, 2014 at 3:52 PM #780791December 6, 2014 at 3:05 PM #780806CA renterParticipant
[quote=EconProf][quote=livinincali][quote=CA renter]
While jealousy and the desire to attain a dominant position and to remain on top are perfectly natural human emotions (and probably necessary for survival, especially in more primitive times), the extent of this empathy/lack of empathy for others is likely at the root of our political/sociological differences.And I believe that it takes a certain intellectual perspective to be able to truly appreciate another person’s lot in life — especially if it’s very different from one’s own — and to have empathy for them…leading to a true desire to see them attain a higher socio-economic/power status that might feel more “threatening” to those already at the top.[/quote]
I don’t know that it’s a lack of empathy. It’s the fact that many people don’t behave as rational economic actors. If you give someone living paycheck to paycheck a $10/hr an hour raise are they going to use that addition money to save and behave rationally or are they going to blow it on junk from China.
No matter what people make there’s always going to be someone on the bottom and if your at the bottom you’re likely to be subject to some scarcity of some resource. The poorest of poor in this country live better than billions of other people on this planet.
I’ve come to realize I can’t put myself in some dumb persons shoes. I just can’t understand the decisions that they make or the things that they deem are important. I also can’t dictate how they should do things either. That’s where the Ivory tower types get it wrong. They can’t force people to behave in a logical economic manner.
I know the flaws with supply side economics but if you want everybody to have a higher standard of living you need to produce more quality goods and services.[/quote]
I think you nailed it Livinincali. A big difference between the poor and the middle class is their time horizon, their planning, and their ability to defer gratification. This is either taught by the parents or not, and it has a lifelong impact.
What is important that we inherit from our parents is not so much money but values which determine our lifetime spending, education, and work ethic.[/quote]Every bit as important as those things are genetic traits, SES, etc. The many factors that determine whether or not one will be “successful” are far more complex than just what one learns from his/her parents. I would say these other things are overwhelmingly more influential than what parents teach their children, and even a parent’s willingness/ability to teach his/her children about economics and finance is determined by so many other factors over which we have little to no control.
December 6, 2014 at 3:16 PM #780807CA renterParticipant[quote=spdrun]Republicans are just as much about big government as Dems, despite their arguing. The programs that they propose are just less useful to the average person.[/quote]
Exactly right.
December 6, 2014 at 4:38 PM #780809CA renterParticipant[quote=njtosd][quote=CA renter]
While jealousy and the desire to attain a dominant position and to remain on top are perfectly natural human emotions (and probably necessary for survival, especially in more primitive times), the extent of this empathy/lack of empathy for others is likely at the root of our political/sociological differences.
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Wait – you can’t really be making the sweeping generalization that conservatives are less empathetic (are you? maybe I am misunderstanding). In fact, the heightened sensitivity among conservatives identified in one of the studies above would probably suggest the opposite. I have voted for presidents of both political parties and consider myself an independent. I don’t think there is a difference in ultimate goodness between members of the two parties. I do think there is a difference in terms of perspective. I also think that each party has its share of bad eggs, and when it comes time to criticize, those bad eggs make good targets.[/quote]
Yes, I am saying that, but I am not associating empathy with “goodness.”
A person can lack empathy but still have a strong drive to “do the right thing.” A person can be empathetic, but still commit horrible crimes (probably more likely to feel justified if they are crimes of passion).
IMO, conservatives tend to think in more binary terms: good/bad, right/wrong, deserving/undeserving, lazy/hard-working, bound for heaven/bound for hell, etc. Liberals tend to focus more on the grey in between: the background and conditions that might have led this person (or this group of people) to think or act in this particular way; the historical, geographical, cultural, or genetic causes of these behaviors and beliefs; etc., etc.
IMO, a more conservative person will look at a situation within the context of that more binary world, not really trying to feel and fully understand the background of others in an attempt to better understand why things have turned out they way they have. They are more inclined to assess things based on a very superficial cause-and-effect relationship like, “being lazy makes you unsuccessful,” instead of trying to determine if there are other reasons for that person’s difficulty in completing tasks or achieving some other metric of success — might he/she be suffering from emotional/mental/physical disabilities, or do they have other factors in their lives that might play a more important role than just “laziness.”
Conservatives are more likely to take personal credit for their success rather than acknowledging the role of luck (and other people, among other things) in their lives, IMHO, while a more liberal person is probably more likely to acknowledge the fact that they are not individually responsible for the successes (or failures) in their lives — giving more credit to coworkers, good timing, intellectual or physical gifts, the role of public infrastructure, etc…luck.
Bringing this back around to why Jewish people are more likely to vote for democrats, I think it has a lot to do with siding with the underdog (as they’ve been the underdog for so long) and having a more philosophical, as opposed to a dogmatic, approach to life.
December 6, 2014 at 5:24 PM #780810scaredyclassicParticipant[quote=CA renter][quote=njtosd][quote=CA renter]
While jealousy and the desire to attain a dominant position and to remain on top are perfectly natural human emotions (and probably necessary for survival, especially in more primitive times), the extent of this empathy/lack of empathy for others is likely at the root of our political/sociological differences.
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Wait – you can’t really be making the sweeping generalization that conservatives are less empathetic (are you? maybe I am misunderstanding). In fact, the heightened sensitivity among conservatives identified in one of the studies above would probably suggest the opposite. I have voted for presidents of both political parties and consider myself an independent. I don’t think there is a difference in ultimate goodness between members of the two parties. I do think there is a difference in terms of perspective. I also think that each party has its share of bad eggs, and when it comes time to criticize, those bad eggs make good targets.[/quote]
Yes, I am saying that, but I am not associating empathy with “goodness.”
A person can lack empathy but still have a strong drive to “do the right thing.” A person can be empathetic, but still commit horrible crimes (probably more likely to feel justified if they are crimes of passion).
IMO, conservatives tend to think in more binary terms: good/bad, right/wrong, deserving/undeserving, lazy/hard-working, bound for heaven/bound for hell, etc. Liberals tend to focus more on the grey in between: the background and conditions that might have led this person (or this group of people) to think or act in this particular way; the historical, geographical, cultural, or genetic causes of these behaviors and beliefs; etc., etc.
IMO, a more conservative person will look at a situation within the context of that more binary world, not really trying to feel and fully understand the background of others in an attempt to better understand why things have turned out they way they have. They are more inclined to assess things based on a very superficial cause-and-effect relationship like, “being lazy makes you unsuccessful,” instead of trying to determine if there are other reasons for that person’s difficulty in completing tasks or achieving some other metric of success — might he/she be suffering from emotional/mental/physical disabilities, or do they have other factors in their lives that might play a more important role than just “laziness.”
Conservatives are more likely to take personal credit for their success rather than acknowledging the role of luck (and other people, among other things) in their lives, IMHO, while a more liberal person is probably more likely to acknowledge the fact that they are not individually responsible for the successes (or failures) in their lives — giving more credit to coworkers, good timing, intellectual or physical gifts, the role of public infrastructure, etc…luck.
Bringing this back around to why Jewish people are more likely to vote for democrats, I think it has a lot to do with siding with the underdog (as they’ve been the underdog for so long) and having a more philosophical, as opposed to a dogmatic, approach to life.[/quote]
some data..
December 6, 2014 at 8:02 PM #780811FlyerInHiGuest[quote=CA renter]
Conservatives are more likely to take personal credit for their success rather than acknowledging the role of luck (and other people, among other things) in their lives, IMHO, while a more liberal person is probably more likely to acknowledge the fact that they are not individually responsible for the successes (or failures) in their lives — giving more credit to coworkers, good timing, intellectual or physical gifts, the role of public infrastructure, etc…luck. [/quote]CAr, that assumes that conservatives are “successful.”
Can we say that conservatives voters in Mississippi, the lowest per capita GDP state in the nation, are successful?
With regard to empathy, I think it’s easier to dismiss problems out of hand than to try to understand them.
I have a friend who’s conservative. Former military. So his attitude is always “pull your head of your ass, and do something about it.” Everything is a one-liner. He would send me links to news articles with remarks like “because of Obama and fucking liberals like you.”
One day, I was sick of being circumspect and let him have some of his own medicine. Needless to say, we’re not talking much anymore. He has alcohol, obesity and pain issues and is living in a clusterfuck man-cave.
Can we say that “unsuccessful” conservatives are f’ing losers and deserve it? Would they agree?
I’m thinking that it’s a weakness to be empathetic towards people who lack empathy. You’re giving something and getting nothing in return. That’s a raw deal that a shrewd business person would never accept.
December 6, 2014 at 10:11 PM #780819scaredyclassicParticipant[quote=FlyerInHi][quote=CA renter]
Conservatives are more likely to take personal credit for their success rather than acknowledging the role of luck (and other people, among other things) in their lives, IMHO, while a more liberal person is probably more likely to acknowledge the fact that they are not individually responsible for the successes (or failures) in their lives — giving more credit to coworkers, good timing, intellectual or physical gifts, the role of public infrastructure, etc…luck. [/quote]CAr, that assumes that conservatives are “successful.”
Can we say that conservatives voters in Mississippi, the lowest per capita GDP state in the nation, are successful?
With regard to empathy, I think it’s easier to dismiss problems out of hand than to try to understand them.
I have a friend who’s conservative. Former military. So his attitude is always “pull your head of your ass, and do something about it.” Everything is a one-liner. He would send me links to news articles with remarks like “because of Obama and fucking liberals like you.”
One day, I was sick of being circumspect and let him have some of his own medicine. Needless to say, we’re not talking much anymore. He has alcohol, obesity and pain issues and is living in a clusterfuck man-cave.
Can we say that “unsuccessful” conservatives are f’ing losers and deserve it? Would they agree?
I’m thinking that it’s a weakness to be empathetic towards people who lack empathy. You’re giving something and getting nothing in return. That’s a raw deal that a shrewd business person would never accept.[/quote]
I feel for that guy. I think it’s never a losing proposition to care or feel for others. Just my perspective.
December 6, 2014 at 11:43 PM #780820CA renterParticipant[quote=FlyerInHi][quote=njtosd]
http://research.vtc.vt.edu/news/2014/oct/29/liberal-or-conservative-brain-responses-disgusting/So, it could be that like hair color and eye color, genetically related groups are more likely to share political opinions. It also suggests that no matter how much we think we’ve chosen our politics, we probably haven’t.
[/quote]Maybe conservatives’ responses to disgusting images show their lesser ability to think abstractly and separate their individual revulsion from the theoretical.
In talking to conservatives, I often hear arguments like “I’m successful, so why should I feed losers who don’t have the discipline and force of character to take care of themselves. I started from nothing, and I made it. So can they. They live pretty well already, so they have nothing to bitch about.”
Liberal are more likely to talk in broader terms about policies that work for everybody, taking their individual circumstances less into account.[/quote]
Have to agree with Brian on this. The level of disgust in those studies isn’t necessarily related to any kind of empathetic feeling on the part of the participants. I think it’s more related to their intolerance of things that don’t conform to their ideals and expectations.
December 7, 2014 at 12:17 AM #780821svelteParticipantI was never really around anyone Jewish until I moved to San Diego. NorCal, Midwest, not many Jewish folks and I don’t even remember meeting one there.
But immediately upon arriving in SD I met several and have continuously had many in my circle of friends ever since.
A small sign that didn’t even register: my company stocked my home with food for me when I moved here, and in my fridge was my very first package of bagels. I had never had one before.
Now they are a part of my diet.
The Jewish population intrigues me and we get along very well – not sure why. I don’t exactly have them figured out yet, going on 20 years now. One thing I have noticed is that they are very open and in tune with their sexuality. That’s a trait I had not anticipated. I always hear about the stereotypical money and doctors aspects, but no one talks about their open-ness with their sexual side.
Not sure why.
December 7, 2014 at 12:36 AM #780822CA renterParticipant[quote=spdrun]A nation is just an extended family unit, which in turn is an extension of an individual.
Talk to most Germans or French, and ask them if they’d want to work 50+ hours per week on average if salaried, have no time off guaranteed by law, or tell them that health insurance isn’t guaranteed, and they’d think twice about the US. Remember that there are street protests whenever some politico yakks about introducing reforms that even slightly approach US-style capitalism.
True, the wealthier ones visit the US to shop, but I don’t see hoardes of them clamoring to immigrate here.
The US might offer more of an opportunity to be super wealthy, but that’s an 0.0002% chance vs an 0.0001% chance. For the average working person, having hours limited by law, vacation guarantees, and health insurance covered by the welfare state is a great thing.
And really, how many iPads or TVs can one view at once? How many cars can one drive simultaneously?[/quote]
Well said, spdrun.
December 7, 2014 at 12:55 AM #780823CA renterParticipant[quote=spdrun]I’ve never owned a fucking SUV and if someone gave me one, I’d part it out with a chain saw and send them pictures.
Then take a trip to Prague on the money gained from EBay sales while laughing all the way.
And don’t confuse editorials in op-ed pages with the feelings of the average employee in a given country. People who I know in northern Europe are quite grateful NOT to be Americans.[/quote]
Have to second what spdrun says here. Nobody in my European family has ever expressed a desire to come to the US and live/work the way we do. As a matter of fact, they laugh when you even suggest it. OTOH, my DH has two brothers who are US citizens (one US-born, the other German-born), and both live and work in Germany. My mother only came here because she was following her boyfriend…and she had always wanted to go back, but being married to an American with American kids put an end to that idea. Many (most?) Europeans think that Americans are rather backward.
I have yet to meet a European who is envious of our lifestyle. It’s pretty much a given, at least in their minds, that their lifestyle is superior to ours.
December 7, 2014 at 2:33 AM #780824CA renterParticipant[quote=scaredyclassic]
some data..Thanks for sharing that, scaredy. Pretty much lines up with what I’ve observed in life.
December 7, 2014 at 3:00 AM #780825CA renterParticipant[quote=FlyerInHi][quote=CA renter]
Conservatives are more likely to take personal credit for their success rather than acknowledging the role of luck (and other people, among other things) in their lives, IMHO, while a more liberal person is probably more likely to acknowledge the fact that they are not individually responsible for the successes (or failures) in their lives — giving more credit to coworkers, good timing, intellectual or physical gifts, the role of public infrastructure, etc…luck. [/quote]CAr, that assumes that conservatives are “successful.”
Can we say that conservatives voters in Mississippi, the lowest per capita GDP state in the nation, are successful?
With regard to empathy, I think it’s easier to dismiss problems out of hand than to try to understand them.
I have a friend who’s conservative. Former military. So his attitude is always “pull your head of your ass, and do something about it.” Everything is a one-liner. He would send me links to news articles with remarks like “because of Obama and fucking liberals like you.”
One day, I was sick of being circumspect and let him have some of his own medicine. Needless to say, we’re not talking much anymore. He has alcohol, obesity and pain issues and is living in a clusterfuck man-cave.
Can we say that “unsuccessful” conservatives are f’ing losers and deserve it? Would they agree?
I’m thinking that it’s a weakness to be empathetic towards people who lack empathy. You’re giving something and getting nothing in return. That’s a raw deal that a shrewd business person would never accept.[/quote]
While you and I might not think of them as “successful,” I’m willing to bet that they think otherwise. Based on my personal observations of what we would describe as “redneck Republicans,” this group of conservatives tends to put “being a white (usually male) American” at the top of their list of successes.
Many of them really do work hard as well, and they manage to make a life for themselves — however simple it may be — based on this hard work. In their minds, they are successful.
For those who are on welfare of some sort, yet still manage to be conservative Republicans…I can only guess that a low IQ and tons of peer pressure and brainwashing are responsible for their beliefs. Far too many of them don’t even realize that they are net recipients of government largesse.
December 7, 2014 at 10:42 AM #780830FlyerInHiGuest[quote=scaredyclassic]
I feel for that guy. I think it’s never a losing proposition to care or feel for others. Just my perspective.[/quote]Yes, but it seems unfair that conservatives who are business-like and matter-of-fact are surrounded by empathetic people. They get the best of both worlds.
OTH, people who are empathetic are seen as weak bleeding heart.
In other words, conservatives get to be assholes but never get the same attitude back.
December 7, 2014 at 10:51 AM #780831scaredyclassicParticipant[quote=FlyerInHi][quote=scaredyclassic]
I feel for that guy. I think it’s never a losing proposition to care or feel for others. Just my perspective.[/quote]Yes, but it seems unfair that conservatives who are business-like and matter-of-fact are surrounded by empathetic people. They get the best of both worlds.
OTH, people who are empathetic are seen as weak bleeding heart.
In other words, conservatives get to be assholes but never get the same attitude back.[/quote]
being empathetic brings benefits regardless of whether you receive empathy in return.
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