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[CA renter]

[quote=sdrealtor]To add to BG’s point. I know someone who is registered as a sex offender. He’s in his mid 40’s and slept with his underage girlfriend when he was 17. The dad made her file charges. That was over 25 years ago and he has never had a mark against him other than traffic violations. He has to register for life now.[/quote]

This is exactly why there should be a separate category for cases where there is an age difference of five years or less, and the relationship was consensual.

That should never be classified as “rape,” and it’s a shame that people are having to deal with the registration requirements decades later when all they were doing was having normal, teenage relationships with their boyfriends/girlfriends.

[bearishgurl]

To the OP . . . S-C-A-R-E-D-Y!! Hello-o-o-o out there . . .

We need your in-the-trenches “expert opiNION” on this “PC 290 registration requirement thang.” The Piggs have been hogging your Humanure thread discussing why CAR gave up her chance to purchase a perfectly acceptable property over it.

(BG’s long since been de-trenched and set out to pasture . . . lol!)

[bearishgurl]

To the OP . . . S-C-A-R-E-D-Y!! Hello-o-o-o out there . . .

We need your in-the-trenches “expert opiNION” on this “PC 290 registration requirement thang.” The Piggs have been hogging your Humanure thread discussing why CAR gave up her chance to purchase a perfectly acceptable property over it.

(BG’s long since been de-trenched and set out to pasture . . . lol!)

[bearishgurl]

To the OP . . . S-C-A-R-E-D-Y!! Hello-o-o-o out there . . .

We need your in-the-trenches “expert opiNION” on this “PC 290 registration requirement thang.” The Piggs have been hogging your Humanure thread discussing why CAR gave up her chance to purchase a perfectly acceptable property over it.

(BG’s long since been de-trenched and set out to pasture . . . lol!)

[bearishgurl]

To the OP . . . S-C-A-R-E-D-Y!! Hello-o-o-o out there . . .

We need your in-the-trenches “expert opiNION” on this “PC 290 registration requirement thang.” The Piggs have been hogging your Humanure thread discussing why CAR gave up her chance to purchase a perfectly acceptable property over it.

(BG’s long since been de-trenched and set out to pasture . . . lol!)

[bearishgurl]

To the OP . . . S-C-A-R-E-D-Y!! Hello-o-o-o out there . . .

We need your in-the-trenches “expert opiNION” on this “PC 290 registration requirement thang.” The Piggs have been hogging your Humanure thread discussing why CAR gave up her chance to purchase a perfectly acceptable property over it.

(BG’s long since been de-trenched and set out to pasture . . . lol!)

[sdrealtor]

I know many people that know him as well as his wife. Admittedly he looks very normal in the picture on the website while most of them look very scary.

[sdrealtor]

I know many people that know him as well as his wife. Admittedly he looks very normal in the picture on the website while most of them look very scary.

[sdrealtor]

I know many people that know him as well as his wife. Admittedly he looks very normal in the picture on the website while most of them look very scary.

[sdrealtor]

I know many people that know him as well as his wife. Admittedly he looks very normal in the picture on the website while most of them look very scary.

[sdrealtor]

I know many people that know him as well as his wife. Admittedly he looks very normal in the picture on the website while most of them look very scary.

[scaredyclassic]

Just reading the name of the charges alone with a creepy picture would freak anyone out.

Not all cases are equally creepy.

You can have a drunk, lonely, divorced cop dad who gropes his teenage daughter’s friend at a sleep over, who immediately takes responsibility, pleads guilty, pays for the victims counseling, gets counseling himself, was lonely, entirely situational one time deviant thing, and he could be charged with the same offense as a mentally ill stranger who tries to grab a kid in a park and feels the kid’s butt.

They are just not the same in terms of how a parent would probably feel in terms of present danger, and that’s why i said, without reading the police report, it’s hard to know anything.

The overwhelming majority of cases nationwide are between parties who know each other, not strangers. The other thing to consider is, of course, that sex registrants move. I have no idea whether they move more than the average person, but i would suspect they probably do.

So the registrant a few blocks down who you’re afraid of might be gone the next week– or you could move into a “registrant-free” area that could have a sudden influx of registrants shortly.

Even wealthy neighborhoods are not immune, as registrants are likely to live with family upon release form custody, and the family may have money. I would suspect without knowing however that they tend to cluster in not-wealthy neighborhoods.

Doubt that makes you feel any better.

THE WOODSMAN with kevin bacon. pretty neat film about a child molestor released from prison trying to go straight. courageous non-mainstream flick. I kinda liked it.

[scaredyclassic]

Just reading the name of the charges alone with a creepy picture would freak anyone out.

Not all cases are equally creepy.

You can have a drunk, lonely, divorced cop dad who gropes his teenage daughter’s friend at a sleep over, who immediately takes responsibility, pleads guilty, pays for the victims counseling, gets counseling himself, was lonely, entirely situational one time deviant thing, and he could be charged with the same offense as a mentally ill stranger who tries to grab a kid in a park and feels the kid’s butt.

They are just not the same in terms of how a parent would probably feel in terms of present danger, and that’s why i said, without reading the police report, it’s hard to know anything.

The overwhelming majority of cases nationwide are between parties who know each other, not strangers. The other thing to consider is, of course, that sex registrants move. I have no idea whether they move more than the average person, but i would suspect they probably do.

So the registrant a few blocks down who you’re afraid of might be gone the next week– or you could move into a “registrant-free” area that could have a sudden influx of registrants shortly.

Even wealthy neighborhoods are not immune, as registrants are likely to live with family upon release form custody, and the family may have money. I would suspect without knowing however that they tend to cluster in not-wealthy neighborhoods.

Doubt that makes you feel any better.

THE WOODSMAN with kevin bacon. pretty neat film about a child molestor released from prison trying to go straight. courageous non-mainstream flick. I kinda liked it.

[scaredyclassic]

Just reading the name of the charges alone with a creepy picture would freak anyone out.

Not all cases are equally creepy.

You can have a drunk, lonely, divorced cop dad who gropes his teenage daughter’s friend at a sleep over, who immediately takes responsibility, pleads guilty, pays for the victims counseling, gets counseling himself, was lonely, entirely situational one time deviant thing, and he could be charged with the same offense as a mentally ill stranger who tries to grab a kid in a park and feels the kid’s butt.

They are just not the same in terms of how a parent would probably feel in terms of present danger, and that’s why i said, without reading the police report, it’s hard to know anything.

The overwhelming majority of cases nationwide are between parties who know each other, not strangers. The other thing to consider is, of course, that sex registrants move. I have no idea whether they move more than the average person, but i would suspect they probably do.

So the registrant a few blocks down who you’re afraid of might be gone the next week– or you could move into a “registrant-free” area that could have a sudden influx of registrants shortly.

Even wealthy neighborhoods are not immune, as registrants are likely to live with family upon release form custody, and the family may have money. I would suspect without knowing however that they tend to cluster in not-wealthy neighborhoods.

Doubt that makes you feel any better.

THE WOODSMAN with kevin bacon. pretty neat film about a child molestor released from prison trying to go straight. courageous non-mainstream flick. I kinda liked it.

[scaredyclassic]

Just reading the name of the charges alone with a creepy picture would freak anyone out.

Not all cases are equally creepy.

You can have a drunk, lonely, divorced cop dad who gropes his teenage daughter’s friend at a sleep over, who immediately takes responsibility, pleads guilty, pays for the victims counseling, gets counseling himself, was lonely, entirely situational one time deviant thing, and he could be charged with the same offense as a mentally ill stranger who tries to grab a kid in a park and feels the kid’s butt.

They are just not the same in terms of how a parent would probably feel in terms of present danger, and that’s why i said, without reading the police report, it’s hard to know anything.

The overwhelming majority of cases nationwide are between parties who know each other, not strangers. The other thing to consider is, of course, that sex registrants move. I have no idea whether they move more than the average person, but i would suspect they probably do.

So the registrant a few blocks down who you’re afraid of might be gone the next week– or you could move into a “registrant-free” area that could have a sudden influx of registrants shortly.

Even wealthy neighborhoods are not immune, as registrants are likely to live with family upon release form custody, and the family may have money. I would suspect without knowing however that they tend to cluster in not-wealthy neighborhoods.

Doubt that makes you feel any better.

THE WOODSMAN with kevin bacon. pretty neat film about a child molestor released from prison trying to go straight. courageous non-mainstream flick. I kinda liked it.

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