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January 11, 2011 at 4:08 PM #652875January 11, 2011 at 4:28 PM #651771scaredyclassicParticipant
Any perfectionist is destined for misery in this world.
As Coleman hawkins said if you don’t make mistakes you aren’t really trying.
January 11, 2011 at 4:28 PM #651836scaredyclassicParticipantAny perfectionist is destined for misery in this world.
As Coleman hawkins said if you don’t make mistakes you aren’t really trying.
January 11, 2011 at 4:28 PM #652425scaredyclassicParticipantAny perfectionist is destined for misery in this world.
As Coleman hawkins said if you don’t make mistakes you aren’t really trying.
January 11, 2011 at 4:28 PM #652561scaredyclassicParticipantAny perfectionist is destined for misery in this world.
As Coleman hawkins said if you don’t make mistakes you aren’t really trying.
January 11, 2011 at 4:28 PM #652890scaredyclassicParticipantAny perfectionist is destined for misery in this world.
As Coleman hawkins said if you don’t make mistakes you aren’t really trying.
January 11, 2011 at 6:55 PM #651860briansd1Guest[quote=jpinpb]
brian – I’d also say that the measure of success does not rely soley on financial wealth. [/quote]
Absolutely. But what in life doesn’t require money?
I’m only saying that education is insurance against being down and out. That is a baseline one which to rely on.
[quote=davelj]
Although it’s a cliche, there’s some truth to it: The C-students own the company in which the B-student is the President and the A-student is the accountant. [/quote]There’s definitely truth to this if you belong to a social economic group where social connections open doors for you.
But for each C student that owns a company, there are thousands of C students who are down and out.
If look at consumer products and financial services, the profits are generated from people who buy appliances on installment, pay monthly fees on their checking accounts and lease cars at high interest rates.
A students don’t buy TVs on $30 per month payments, C students do.
C students tend to be those who struggle through life searching for their calling but never finding it.
That’s being said, I’d rather be goodlooking, from a rich family, or generally lucky than intelligent. We like to claim that society rewards smarts and hardwork, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Luck counts for much more.
January 11, 2011 at 6:55 PM #651925briansd1Guest[quote=jpinpb]
brian – I’d also say that the measure of success does not rely soley on financial wealth. [/quote]
Absolutely. But what in life doesn’t require money?
I’m only saying that education is insurance against being down and out. That is a baseline one which to rely on.
[quote=davelj]
Although it’s a cliche, there’s some truth to it: The C-students own the company in which the B-student is the President and the A-student is the accountant. [/quote]There’s definitely truth to this if you belong to a social economic group where social connections open doors for you.
But for each C student that owns a company, there are thousands of C students who are down and out.
If look at consumer products and financial services, the profits are generated from people who buy appliances on installment, pay monthly fees on their checking accounts and lease cars at high interest rates.
A students don’t buy TVs on $30 per month payments, C students do.
C students tend to be those who struggle through life searching for their calling but never finding it.
That’s being said, I’d rather be goodlooking, from a rich family, or generally lucky than intelligent. We like to claim that society rewards smarts and hardwork, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Luck counts for much more.
January 11, 2011 at 6:55 PM #652515briansd1Guest[quote=jpinpb]
brian – I’d also say that the measure of success does not rely soley on financial wealth. [/quote]
Absolutely. But what in life doesn’t require money?
I’m only saying that education is insurance against being down and out. That is a baseline one which to rely on.
[quote=davelj]
Although it’s a cliche, there’s some truth to it: The C-students own the company in which the B-student is the President and the A-student is the accountant. [/quote]There’s definitely truth to this if you belong to a social economic group where social connections open doors for you.
But for each C student that owns a company, there are thousands of C students who are down and out.
If look at consumer products and financial services, the profits are generated from people who buy appliances on installment, pay monthly fees on their checking accounts and lease cars at high interest rates.
A students don’t buy TVs on $30 per month payments, C students do.
C students tend to be those who struggle through life searching for their calling but never finding it.
That’s being said, I’d rather be goodlooking, from a rich family, or generally lucky than intelligent. We like to claim that society rewards smarts and hardwork, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Luck counts for much more.
January 11, 2011 at 6:55 PM #652651briansd1Guest[quote=jpinpb]
brian – I’d also say that the measure of success does not rely soley on financial wealth. [/quote]
Absolutely. But what in life doesn’t require money?
I’m only saying that education is insurance against being down and out. That is a baseline one which to rely on.
[quote=davelj]
Although it’s a cliche, there’s some truth to it: The C-students own the company in which the B-student is the President and the A-student is the accountant. [/quote]There’s definitely truth to this if you belong to a social economic group where social connections open doors for you.
But for each C student that owns a company, there are thousands of C students who are down and out.
If look at consumer products and financial services, the profits are generated from people who buy appliances on installment, pay monthly fees on their checking accounts and lease cars at high interest rates.
A students don’t buy TVs on $30 per month payments, C students do.
C students tend to be those who struggle through life searching for their calling but never finding it.
That’s being said, I’d rather be goodlooking, from a rich family, or generally lucky than intelligent. We like to claim that society rewards smarts and hardwork, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Luck counts for much more.
January 11, 2011 at 6:55 PM #652980briansd1Guest[quote=jpinpb]
brian – I’d also say that the measure of success does not rely soley on financial wealth. [/quote]
Absolutely. But what in life doesn’t require money?
I’m only saying that education is insurance against being down and out. That is a baseline one which to rely on.
[quote=davelj]
Although it’s a cliche, there’s some truth to it: The C-students own the company in which the B-student is the President and the A-student is the accountant. [/quote]There’s definitely truth to this if you belong to a social economic group where social connections open doors for you.
But for each C student that owns a company, there are thousands of C students who are down and out.
If look at consumer products and financial services, the profits are generated from people who buy appliances on installment, pay monthly fees on their checking accounts and lease cars at high interest rates.
A students don’t buy TVs on $30 per month payments, C students do.
C students tend to be those who struggle through life searching for their calling but never finding it.
That’s being said, I’d rather be goodlooking, from a rich family, or generally lucky than intelligent. We like to claim that society rewards smarts and hardwork, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Luck counts for much more.
January 11, 2011 at 7:43 PM #651899bearishgurlParticipantI just read the WSJ article. Given my experience in the CA domestic legal arena (don’t know where Chines mom lives), I have a couple of opinions about it.
The “Chinese mom’s” parenting style only works if the other parent is on the same page and the parents have a strong relationship. Even then, it could backfire on the mom if for any reason she and the dad split, even if it was an amicable split. In the article, it sounds like the dad, “Jed,” had a “passive” personality as he did not always agree with her parenting style but gave her free reign over the kids’ upbringing and discipline. Also, their kids are still young. When they are older and the dad disagrees with her openly, they may then only ask the dad for permission to do something and ignore her.
I am not totally against most aspects of the Chinese mom’s parenting style because I think kids are way too “coddled” today. But want to preface that by saying that both parents have to be on the same page and cannot ever waver.
If parents have different parenting styles, the Chinese mom’s style will backfire on her and will not work. If “Jed” ends up having enough of it, all h@ll is going to break loose.
Just my .02.
January 11, 2011 at 7:43 PM #651965bearishgurlParticipantI just read the WSJ article. Given my experience in the CA domestic legal arena (don’t know where Chines mom lives), I have a couple of opinions about it.
The “Chinese mom’s” parenting style only works if the other parent is on the same page and the parents have a strong relationship. Even then, it could backfire on the mom if for any reason she and the dad split, even if it was an amicable split. In the article, it sounds like the dad, “Jed,” had a “passive” personality as he did not always agree with her parenting style but gave her free reign over the kids’ upbringing and discipline. Also, their kids are still young. When they are older and the dad disagrees with her openly, they may then only ask the dad for permission to do something and ignore her.
I am not totally against most aspects of the Chinese mom’s parenting style because I think kids are way too “coddled” today. But want to preface that by saying that both parents have to be on the same page and cannot ever waver.
If parents have different parenting styles, the Chinese mom’s style will backfire on her and will not work. If “Jed” ends up having enough of it, all h@ll is going to break loose.
Just my .02.
January 11, 2011 at 7:43 PM #652555bearishgurlParticipantI just read the WSJ article. Given my experience in the CA domestic legal arena (don’t know where Chines mom lives), I have a couple of opinions about it.
The “Chinese mom’s” parenting style only works if the other parent is on the same page and the parents have a strong relationship. Even then, it could backfire on the mom if for any reason she and the dad split, even if it was an amicable split. In the article, it sounds like the dad, “Jed,” had a “passive” personality as he did not always agree with her parenting style but gave her free reign over the kids’ upbringing and discipline. Also, their kids are still young. When they are older and the dad disagrees with her openly, they may then only ask the dad for permission to do something and ignore her.
I am not totally against most aspects of the Chinese mom’s parenting style because I think kids are way too “coddled” today. But want to preface that by saying that both parents have to be on the same page and cannot ever waver.
If parents have different parenting styles, the Chinese mom’s style will backfire on her and will not work. If “Jed” ends up having enough of it, all h@ll is going to break loose.
Just my .02.
January 11, 2011 at 7:43 PM #652691bearishgurlParticipantI just read the WSJ article. Given my experience in the CA domestic legal arena (don’t know where Chines mom lives), I have a couple of opinions about it.
The “Chinese mom’s” parenting style only works if the other parent is on the same page and the parents have a strong relationship. Even then, it could backfire on the mom if for any reason she and the dad split, even if it was an amicable split. In the article, it sounds like the dad, “Jed,” had a “passive” personality as he did not always agree with her parenting style but gave her free reign over the kids’ upbringing and discipline. Also, their kids are still young. When they are older and the dad disagrees with her openly, they may then only ask the dad for permission to do something and ignore her.
I am not totally against most aspects of the Chinese mom’s parenting style because I think kids are way too “coddled” today. But want to preface that by saying that both parents have to be on the same page and cannot ever waver.
If parents have different parenting styles, the Chinese mom’s style will backfire on her and will not work. If “Jed” ends up having enough of it, all h@ll is going to break loose.
Just my .02.
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