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January 11, 2011 at 7:58 AM #652227January 11, 2011 at 8:12 AM #651124nocommonsenseParticipant
I think the fundamental difference between asian (Chinese, Korean, Japanese) and western parenting is that the asian parents are more willing to push their kids harder to do things they don’t automatically want to do due to mainly laziness. American parenting has a strong aversion to doing this.
If you push just the right amount, the kids accomplish more than they’d otherwise on their own. They become successful adults and they thank you for it. The trick is not to push TOO hard.
January 11, 2011 at 8:12 AM #651191nocommonsenseParticipantI think the fundamental difference between asian (Chinese, Korean, Japanese) and western parenting is that the asian parents are more willing to push their kids harder to do things they don’t automatically want to do due to mainly laziness. American parenting has a strong aversion to doing this.
If you push just the right amount, the kids accomplish more than they’d otherwise on their own. They become successful adults and they thank you for it. The trick is not to push TOO hard.
January 11, 2011 at 8:12 AM #651774nocommonsenseParticipantI think the fundamental difference between asian (Chinese, Korean, Japanese) and western parenting is that the asian parents are more willing to push their kids harder to do things they don’t automatically want to do due to mainly laziness. American parenting has a strong aversion to doing this.
If you push just the right amount, the kids accomplish more than they’d otherwise on their own. They become successful adults and they thank you for it. The trick is not to push TOO hard.
January 11, 2011 at 8:12 AM #651908nocommonsenseParticipantI think the fundamental difference between asian (Chinese, Korean, Japanese) and western parenting is that the asian parents are more willing to push their kids harder to do things they don’t automatically want to do due to mainly laziness. American parenting has a strong aversion to doing this.
If you push just the right amount, the kids accomplish more than they’d otherwise on their own. They become successful adults and they thank you for it. The trick is not to push TOO hard.
January 11, 2011 at 8:12 AM #652237nocommonsenseParticipantI think the fundamental difference between asian (Chinese, Korean, Japanese) and western parenting is that the asian parents are more willing to push their kids harder to do things they don’t automatically want to do due to mainly laziness. American parenting has a strong aversion to doing this.
If you push just the right amount, the kids accomplish more than they’d otherwise on their own. They become successful adults and they thank you for it. The trick is not to push TOO hard.
January 11, 2011 at 8:22 AM #651129nocommonsenseParticipantI know quite a few second or later generation Chinese immigrants who lived in roach infested one bedroom apartments with both parents and siblings growing up. They’re now wealthy successful adults as doctors and professionals living in the most expensive neighborhoods of San Diego. I’m not nearly as successful as some of them are. But I came to this country with two suitcases and one month’s living expenses and I’m now doing quite well economically.
That’s why I have zero patience for racially based whining coming from a certain ethnic group. And in spite of the fact that I’m fully aware of the existence of glass ceilings and discrimination (hey I’m a minority myself!), I despise Affirmative Action, a travesty of justice.
January 11, 2011 at 8:22 AM #651196nocommonsenseParticipantI know quite a few second or later generation Chinese immigrants who lived in roach infested one bedroom apartments with both parents and siblings growing up. They’re now wealthy successful adults as doctors and professionals living in the most expensive neighborhoods of San Diego. I’m not nearly as successful as some of them are. But I came to this country with two suitcases and one month’s living expenses and I’m now doing quite well economically.
That’s why I have zero patience for racially based whining coming from a certain ethnic group. And in spite of the fact that I’m fully aware of the existence of glass ceilings and discrimination (hey I’m a minority myself!), I despise Affirmative Action, a travesty of justice.
January 11, 2011 at 8:22 AM #651778nocommonsenseParticipantI know quite a few second or later generation Chinese immigrants who lived in roach infested one bedroom apartments with both parents and siblings growing up. They’re now wealthy successful adults as doctors and professionals living in the most expensive neighborhoods of San Diego. I’m not nearly as successful as some of them are. But I came to this country with two suitcases and one month’s living expenses and I’m now doing quite well economically.
That’s why I have zero patience for racially based whining coming from a certain ethnic group. And in spite of the fact that I’m fully aware of the existence of glass ceilings and discrimination (hey I’m a minority myself!), I despise Affirmative Action, a travesty of justice.
January 11, 2011 at 8:22 AM #651913nocommonsenseParticipantI know quite a few second or later generation Chinese immigrants who lived in roach infested one bedroom apartments with both parents and siblings growing up. They’re now wealthy successful adults as doctors and professionals living in the most expensive neighborhoods of San Diego. I’m not nearly as successful as some of them are. But I came to this country with two suitcases and one month’s living expenses and I’m now doing quite well economically.
That’s why I have zero patience for racially based whining coming from a certain ethnic group. And in spite of the fact that I’m fully aware of the existence of glass ceilings and discrimination (hey I’m a minority myself!), I despise Affirmative Action, a travesty of justice.
January 11, 2011 at 8:22 AM #652242nocommonsenseParticipantI know quite a few second or later generation Chinese immigrants who lived in roach infested one bedroom apartments with both parents and siblings growing up. They’re now wealthy successful adults as doctors and professionals living in the most expensive neighborhoods of San Diego. I’m not nearly as successful as some of them are. But I came to this country with two suitcases and one month’s living expenses and I’m now doing quite well economically.
That’s why I have zero patience for racially based whining coming from a certain ethnic group. And in spite of the fact that I’m fully aware of the existence of glass ceilings and discrimination (hey I’m a minority myself!), I despise Affirmative Action, a travesty of justice.
January 11, 2011 at 8:29 AM #651139EconProfParticipantA lot of the ethnic conclusions we are making are due to the self-selection aspect of immigration. The personality of those who emmigrate differs from those who stay, leading to erroneous conclusions about nationality being overly important. The Chinese are the entrepreneurial class in much of southeast Asia, but they were the adventuresome and ambitious ones who took chances by leaving their homeland. Economist Thomas Sowell has written a lot about the economic success of Jamaicans, Cubans, and others from the Carribean who find prosperity in NYC. In our southwest, OTOH, we attract the poorest, least-educated Mexicans and Central Americans that are not representative of most citizens of their home countries.
January 11, 2011 at 8:29 AM #651206EconProfParticipantA lot of the ethnic conclusions we are making are due to the self-selection aspect of immigration. The personality of those who emmigrate differs from those who stay, leading to erroneous conclusions about nationality being overly important. The Chinese are the entrepreneurial class in much of southeast Asia, but they were the adventuresome and ambitious ones who took chances by leaving their homeland. Economist Thomas Sowell has written a lot about the economic success of Jamaicans, Cubans, and others from the Carribean who find prosperity in NYC. In our southwest, OTOH, we attract the poorest, least-educated Mexicans and Central Americans that are not representative of most citizens of their home countries.
January 11, 2011 at 8:29 AM #651788EconProfParticipantA lot of the ethnic conclusions we are making are due to the self-selection aspect of immigration. The personality of those who emmigrate differs from those who stay, leading to erroneous conclusions about nationality being overly important. The Chinese are the entrepreneurial class in much of southeast Asia, but they were the adventuresome and ambitious ones who took chances by leaving their homeland. Economist Thomas Sowell has written a lot about the economic success of Jamaicans, Cubans, and others from the Carribean who find prosperity in NYC. In our southwest, OTOH, we attract the poorest, least-educated Mexicans and Central Americans that are not representative of most citizens of their home countries.
January 11, 2011 at 8:29 AM #651923EconProfParticipantA lot of the ethnic conclusions we are making are due to the self-selection aspect of immigration. The personality of those who emmigrate differs from those who stay, leading to erroneous conclusions about nationality being overly important. The Chinese are the entrepreneurial class in much of southeast Asia, but they were the adventuresome and ambitious ones who took chances by leaving their homeland. Economist Thomas Sowell has written a lot about the economic success of Jamaicans, Cubans, and others from the Carribean who find prosperity in NYC. In our southwest, OTOH, we attract the poorest, least-educated Mexicans and Central Americans that are not representative of most citizens of their home countries.
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