OT – Vainglory

[scaredyclassic]

https://www.facebook.com/humansofnewyork/photos/a.102107073196735.4429.102099916530784/887246701349431/?type=1&theater

this sums it up.

[scaredyclassic]

[quote=flyer]Since many people don’t have anything to be “immodest” about, and have never had even one “glory day”–past or present in their entire life–personally, I find it interesting to hear from those who have interesting lives–especially since it seems there are so few.

Brian Williams didn’t need to add any embellishments to his already amazing life–but he chose to–and, IMO, that’s where he made his mistake.[/quote]

the results aren’t interesting, but the story of how success occurred, or nearly didnt is.

the journey not the destination

[scaredyclassic]

i wonder how many folks feel like they had an almost brushw ith greatness. people who almostmade a fortune if only theyd stayed with a certain company, or worked with someone who went on to big things and they coudlve come along, or almost had a recording contract or a basketball career.

there must be millions of us people who feel we just missed it…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3QsNXd57Ppw

i coulda been a contender….

you know what. i think i still ahve some fight left…

[Anonymous]

I’ve known a few people that were consumed by woulda/shoulda/coulda.

It’s not a healthy way to think.

But I imagine it would be difficult to be Ronald Wayne.

[scaredyclassic]

[quote=harvey]I’ve known a few people that were consumed by woulda/shoulda/coulda.

It’s not a healthy way to think.

But I imagine it would be difficult to be Ronald Wayne.[/quote]

ah yes, ronald wayne, the pete Best of computers.

i really truly feel in my soul that I couldve really been someone. instead of a bum which is what i am, let’s face it charlie. you were my brother. you shoulda looked out for me, charlie/

[zk]

[quote=flyer]Since many people don’t have anything to be “immodest” about, and have never had even one “glory day”–past or present in their entire life–personally, I find it interesting to hear from those who have interesting lives–especially since it seems there are so few.

Brian Williams didn’t need to add any embellishments to his already amazing life–but he chose to–and, IMO, that’s where he made his mistake.[/quote]

I think most people have something to be immodest about, whether it’s generosity, thoughtfulness, solid character, financial success, athletic victory, a special talent, a fascinating career, or a wonderful family. Perhaps you think there are few of these people because you assume they’ll tell you all about it. Probably you don’t recognize their modesty because you clearly don’t understand modesty, as evidenced by your quote below.

“As I mentioned, I enjoy sharing, as well as hearing about any and all accomplishments others have made. I don’t consider it immodest to share that information with others..”

[scaredyclassic]

Remember that night in the Garden you came down to my dressing room and you said, “Kid, this ain’t your night. We’re going for the price on Wilson.” You remember that? “This ain’t your night”! My night! I coulda taken Wilson apart! So what happens? He gets the title shot outdoors on the ballpark and what do I get? A one-way ticket to Palooka-ville! You was my brother, Charley, you shoulda looked out for me a little bit. You shoulda taken care of me just a little bit so I wouldn’t have to take them dives for the short-end money.

[scaredyclassic]

personally i enjoy hearing more about failures than successes. in gneral most lawyers i know like to talk about their successes, take credit for them even when it wasnt all them.

i prefer hearing stories from attorneys about screwups.

[scaredyclassic]

i guess i am kind of braggy about my kids on this board. but not in public or to people i dont know well. I’m always afraid that they have problems with their own kids, or no kids, and somehow my saying something too good about my kids or my relationship with them will be painful for them to hear.

like if someone is having trouble with their teens, i dont want to be saying, damn, my teens love hanging out with me. we have a blast whatever we do. they think im hilarious and they have no behvioral or emotional problems. they seem fine to me! plus theyre justa pleasure to live tih and are doing great in school

doesnt that seem kind of off?

better to just tell a funny, nonconclusory illustrative story about our life together that doesnt necessarily make me look great but that demonstrates some connection in our relationship…

like, i went to pick up my kid from SDSU a week or so ago. I drove down there in silence to get him. When he got in the car, he was just talking nonstop about every little thing going on in his life, just so excited about every class and workshop and grade and all the funny people he’s meeting and the professors. So fun to sit there driving home in the dark and just listen to it all come out in a nonstop stream of energy from his youthful self…

[flyer]

Obviously, people have different opinions about this topic. I really do enjoy hearing about other people’s life stories and experiences–successful or otherwise–whether related to family, helping others, exciting educational or career accomplishments, sports quests, travel or anything else.

Our family and friends are very open, warm people who support each other in every way we can. We’re all very happy with our lives, so we might tend to “overshare.” To each his/her own, but lying (per the OP) is definitely where I would draw the line.

[CA renter]

[quote=scaredyclassic]personally i enjoy hearing more about failures than successes. in gneral most lawyers i know like to talk about their successes, take credit for them even when it wasnt all them.

i prefer hearing stories from attorneys about screwups.[/quote]

I like hearing about both successes and failures. We can learn a lot from both.

It’s also interesting just to hear other people’s stories and perspectives. From maids and gardeners to executives and successful, self-made entrepreneurs…there are so many varied experiences from which we can learn. It’s all fascinating to me.

[moneymaker]

Ever get the feeling it’s time to move on, I’m guessing Brian may be having that feeling right about now. For me, my gut definitely lets me know when it’s time, no matter how I fight it later on I realize yep I knew it was time. The important thing is to learn from failure, that is what is important.

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