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October 27, 2014 at 9:56 AM #779601October 27, 2014 at 10:23 AM #779602FlyerInHiGuest
I think loves requires drama. Someone told me that without drama, there is no love.
October 27, 2014 at 12:00 PM #779604UCGalParticipant[quote=FlyerInHi]
1.5. Marry a woman my age and income level. We can pay each other our spouse’s worth and adopt kids, if we wish. That might not work, because I’m worth more since I’m talented in so many areas. My wife might not be able to afford me, or there might be resentment because all the networth will accrue to me.
[/quote]Does it not occur to you that the future Mrs. FlyerInHi might be talented in different areas than you – making her worth as much or more than you?
It goes back to Blogstar’s people marrying their equal… finding their level…
If you marry someone who’s worth less (because they’re less talented) the marriage is likely doomed.
October 27, 2014 at 1:09 PM #779605NotCrankyParticipant[quote=FlyerInHi]I think loves requires drama. Someone told me that without drama, there is no love.[/quote]
Drama is just part of life. A hermit has drama probably very grim. Being homeless under a bridge is pretty dramatic.
Shakespeare was probably the best dramatist ever and most if not all his main characters were rich or well to do.
Everyone in between has drama.
Life is dramatic, being too shy of it might be a curse…maybe it’s perfect for some, I don’t know.
October 27, 2014 at 2:35 PM #779607njtosdParticipant[quote=FlyerInHi]CAr, the reasons you mentioned are why my target market is not the ordinary woman but heiress.
An heiress, needs a personal trainer, nutrition consultant, personal assistant, chauffeur, pilot, jockey, architect… imagine outsourcing all of those things.
My neighbors thought that I was an architect because I did such a good job on my apartment. What’s the cost of having a great architect on retainer?
If I may so myself, I’m worth a pretty good salary. I won’t settle for any less.
Even the household work that I do now, if someone else profit from my labor, I need to get paid!A feng-shui Asian friend says that I should not “look up” all the time… The levels above are too hard to attain.
I should “look around me” as in water seeks its own level, or “look slightly below” because the people below appreciate things more.
I have 3 options I think:
1. Marry an heiress to get paid my full husband potential. Not a problem because she can afford me.
1.5. Marry a woman my age and income level. We can pay each other our spouse’s worth and adopt kids, if we wish. That might not work, because I’m worth more since I’m talented in so many areas. My wife might not be able to afford me, or there might be resentment because all the networth will accrue to me.
2. Marry a younger woman, have children and a beautiful family. zk said that I’d be getting a hooker, but I don’t think so.
3. Not marry at all and become a philosopher.[/quote]
I really hope this is tongue in cheek and there aren’t any people out there that think this way.
October 27, 2014 at 3:25 PM #779608flyerParticipantConcerning Romance novels–the numbers speak for themselves. Women, primarily, are buying them by the billions. That definitely tells us something about the state of relationships in our society, and, it’s also a great business opportunity.
Realize everyone defines love, lust, and relationships differently–and drama is definitely a natural part of the whole package–wouldn’t have it any other way. As long as the relationship works for the people involved–that’s all that matters.
October 27, 2014 at 5:05 PM #779609CA renterParticipant[quote=FlyerInHi]CAr, the reasons you mentioned are why my target market is not the ordinary woman but heiress.
An heiress, needs a personal trainer, nutrition consultant, personal assistant, chauffeur, pilot, jockey, architect… imagine outsourcing all of those things.
My neighbors thought that I was an architect because I did such a good job on my apartment. What’s the cost of having a great architect on retainer?
If I may so myself, I’m worth a pretty good salary. I won’t settle for any less.
Even the household work that I do now, if someone else profit from my labor, I need to get paid!A feng-shui Asian friend says that I should not “look up” all the time… The levels above are too hard to attain.
I should “look around me” as in water seeks its own level, or “look slightly below” because the people below appreciate things more.
I have 3 options I think:
1. Marry an heiress to get paid my full husband potential. Not a problem because she can afford me.
1.5. Marry a woman my age and income level. We can pay each other our spouse’s worth and adopt kids, if we wish. That might not work, because I’m worth more since I’m talented in so many areas. My wife might not be able to afford me, or there might be resentment because all the networth will accrue to me.
2. Marry a younger woman, have children and a beautiful family. zk said that I’d be getting a hooker, but I don’t think so.
3. Not marry at all and become a philosopher.[/quote]
You know, I was thinking about you earlier today and realized that you probably *could* marry well and be a househusband, even without kids. But, like so many women who’ve come before you, you would probably have to marry someone 20+ years your senior. And you would have to shower her with attention and affection; satisfy her sexual and emotional desires; profess your love for her day and night, both privately and publicly; and maintain those awesome looks of yours. π
But, yes, you could probably do it. You just need to start circulating in those places where all the rich divorcees hang out…and be incredibly charming and as good-looking as possible. You’d probably manage to find a “sugar mama” within a year.
October 27, 2014 at 5:39 PM #779610NotCrankyParticipantNo.2 Mary a younger woman have children and a beautiful family.
Not necessarily a problem for some men, and is not necessarily hooker area.
Lot’s of men have done it. How much younger is the question….I do believe you can go as low as is legal depending on what you want to do.Instead of worrying about a label like hooker I would suggest worry about the highest lever of compatibility you could get to go into that scenario. Put compatibility above the woman’s looks if you don’t want it to be too shallow like a hooker/john with kids( that goes for everybody really). Compatibility would seem to bring the woman up to at least her 30’s but there’s nothing wrong with that.
I think many 35 year old women would take a 47 year old man seriously. Maybe not a perfect match, but lets get real , few people have that. Even at 35 her clock is ticking. Make sure you tell her in advance about your plan to ship the kids off to a boarding school.
Are you capable of putting compatibility over all? I have my doubts.
October 27, 2014 at 6:08 PM #779612scaredyclassicParticipant[quote=flyer]Concerning Romance novels–the numbers speak for themselves. Women, primarily, are buying them by the billions. That definitely tells us something about the state of relationships in our society, and, it’s also a great business opportunity.
Realize everyone defines love, lust, and relationships differently–and drama is definitely a natural part of the whole package–wouldn’t have it any other way. As long as the relationship works for the people involved–that’s all that matters.[/quote]
people in love are unqualified to determine what is likely to work.
October 27, 2014 at 6:11 PM #779613scaredyclassicParticipant[quote=CA renter][quote=FlyerInHi]CAr, the reasons you mentioned are why my target market is not the ordinary woman but heiress.
An heiress, needs a personal trainer, nutrition consultant, personal assistant, chauffeur, pilot, jockey, architect… imagine outsourcing all of those things.
My neighbors thought that I was an architect because I did such a good job on my apartment. What’s the cost of having a great architect on retainer?
If I may so myself, I’m worth a pretty good salary. I won’t settle for any less.
Even the household work that I do now, if someone else profit from my labor, I need to get paid!A feng-shui Asian friend says that I should not “look up” all the time… The levels above are too hard to attain.
I should “look around me” as in water seeks its own level, or “look slightly below” because the people below appreciate things more.
I have 3 options I think:
1. Marry an heiress to get paid my full husband potential. Not a problem because she can afford me.
1.5. Marry a woman my age and income level. We can pay each other our spouse’s worth and adopt kids, if we wish. That might not work, because I’m worth more since I’m talented in so many areas. My wife might not be able to afford me, or there might be resentment because all the networth will accrue to me.
2. Marry a younger woman, have children and a beautiful family. zk said that I’d be getting a hooker, but I don’t think so.
3. Not marry at all and become a philosopher.[/quote]
You know, I was thinking about you earlier today and realized that you probably *could* marry well and be a househusband, even without kids. But, like so many women who’ve come before you, you would probably have to marry someone 20+ years your senior. And you would have to shower her with attention and affection; satisfy her sexual and emotional desires; profess your love for her day and night, both privately and publicly; and maintain those awesome looks of yours. π
But, yes, you could probably do it. You just need to start circulating in those places where all the rich divorcees hang out…and be incredibly charming and as good-looking as possible. You’d probably manage to find a “sugar mama” within a year.[/quote]
I have a hard time seeing myself having sex with the elderly but I also couldn’t see myself having sex with women in their 40s when I was a pup. I assume therefore all these senior citizens are going to start looking hot shortly which quote frankly scares me.
October 27, 2014 at 6:13 PM #779614scaredyclassicParticipant“A successful marriage is an edifice which must be rebuilt every day.” Andre maurois.
Jeez what a drama queen!
October 27, 2014 at 6:27 PM #779616NotCrankyParticipant[quote=scaredyclassic]”A successful marriage is an edifice which must be rebuilt every day.” Andre maurois.
Jeez what a drama queen![/quote]
That’s the conclusion I have come to , that it’s and art anyway, wasn’t sure the art was architecture. Maybe b, will be good marriage after all, with his architectural skills.
Got any good gardening /marriage metaphors?
October 27, 2014 at 7:12 PM #779617scaredyclassicParticipantYou’ve been a fool and so have i
But come I’ll be your wife
And let us try before we die
To make some sense of life
We’re neither pure nor wise nor good
We’ll do the best we know
We’ll build our house and chop our wood
And make our garden grow
And make our garden growI thought the world was sugar cake
For so our master said
But now I’ll teach my hands to bake
Our loaf of daily bread
We’re neither pure nor wise nor good
We’ll do the best we know
We’ll build our house and chop our wood
And make our garden grow
And make our garden growLet dreamers dream what worlds they please
Those edens can’t be found
The sweetest flowers
The fairest trees
Are grown in solid ground
We’re neither pure nor wise nor good
We’ll do the best we know
We’ll build our house and chop our wood
And make our garden grow
And make our garden growleonard bernstein. Candide. bway musical lyrics. makes me cry when i hear it.
October 27, 2014 at 7:28 PM #779618scaredyclassicParticipanti must be the most sentimental dumbshit in the world because i’m weeping salty tears listening to this version by barbra streisand and i dont even like barbra streisand and im stuffing my face with a hamburger with my kids.
October 27, 2014 at 7:49 PM #779619scaredyclassicParticipantIt’s the old Hollywood formula …boy meets girl
Boy lose girl boy gets girl boy spends remainder of his existence on earth trying to hold it all together… -
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