OT: Divorce question in regards to home ownership

[seattle-relo]

[quote=patientlywaiting][quote=temeculaguy] divorcing a stay at home mom will leave him with barely enough to eat on, let alone pay a mortgage[/quote]

How about divorce the wife and ask her to get back to work immediately?

He has the money so he holds the cards.

I don’t think that any judge would approve of her staying at home and not working.

Pay the $40 grand now and get rid of her as fast you he can. That’s better than living with a whiner for the next 10 years.
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Whoa horsey! What makes you think she’s a whiner? Stay at home moms aren’t whiners. It’s a family decision. For some families having a parent stay at home to care for the child/children makes the best sense. And if she hasn’t been working it can be a challenge to re-enter the workforce, especially during these economic times. I am not saying she shouldn’t get a job, but don’t make judgements until you have all the facts.

[LAAFTERHOURS]

She has a side hobby which she calls a job but it brings no income. As I understand the alimony law, she will be required to go back to work.

[LAAFTERHOURS]

She has a side hobby which she calls a job but it brings no income. As I understand the alimony law, she will be required to go back to work.

[LAAFTERHOURS]

She has a side hobby which she calls a job but it brings no income. As I understand the alimony law, she will be required to go back to work.

[LAAFTERHOURS]

She has a side hobby which she calls a job but it brings no income. As I understand the alimony law, she will be required to go back to work.

[LAAFTERHOURS]

She has a side hobby which she calls a job but it brings no income. As I understand the alimony law, she will be required to go back to work.

[LAAFTERHOURS]

[quote=temeculaguy] It is doubtful either can swing the place with a 50% cut in pay. California does not recognize individual income, the family income is what it is and it gets divided based on a number of factors. [/quote]

Can you elaborate on what those factors are??

[LAAFTERHOURS]

[quote=temeculaguy] It is doubtful either can swing the place with a 50% cut in pay. California does not recognize individual income, the family income is what it is and it gets divided based on a number of factors. [/quote]

Can you elaborate on what those factors are??

[LAAFTERHOURS]

[quote=temeculaguy] It is doubtful either can swing the place with a 50% cut in pay. California does not recognize individual income, the family income is what it is and it gets divided based on a number of factors. [/quote]

Can you elaborate on what those factors are??

[LAAFTERHOURS]

[quote=temeculaguy] It is doubtful either can swing the place with a 50% cut in pay. California does not recognize individual income, the family income is what it is and it gets divided based on a number of factors. [/quote]

Can you elaborate on what those factors are??

[LAAFTERHOURS]

[quote=temeculaguy] It is doubtful either can swing the place with a 50% cut in pay. California does not recognize individual income, the family income is what it is and it gets divided based on a number of factors. [/quote]

Can you elaborate on what those factors are??

[patientlywaiting]

Women always complain about their kids and family life especially if it’s not a happy situation.

Women always want something such as more money, help picking up the kids, help watching the kids, help cleaning, etc…, even if they already agreed to taking custody and even after the divorce.

I know it’s sexist to say so, but women always find little things to manipulate. Something always comes up that requires “modifications”.

It’s better to give her her share and get her out of his hair. Be fair to her financially but require that she goes back to work immediately.

If she can’t handle custody of the kids (which she will most likely demand) then take care of them himself, pay her alimony and say goodbye. But don’t let her nag and manipulate. Set up the responsibilities clearly and hold her to the agreement. He should make sure that he lives up to his end of bargain also, so not to give her any opportunity to complain.

Lay down the law and don’t deviate.

TG must be nuts to suggest that the dad continue to live in the same household with the mom until the kids grow up. That would be torture!

BTW, I’m not a bitter husband but I’ve seen too many divorces and I know how they usually go.

[patientlywaiting]

Women always complain about their kids and family life especially if it’s not a happy situation.

Women always want something such as more money, help picking up the kids, help watching the kids, help cleaning, etc…, even if they already agreed to taking custody and even after the divorce.

I know it’s sexist to say so, but women always find little things to manipulate. Something always comes up that requires “modifications”.

It’s better to give her her share and get her out of his hair. Be fair to her financially but require that she goes back to work immediately.

If she can’t handle custody of the kids (which she will most likely demand) then take care of them himself, pay her alimony and say goodbye. But don’t let her nag and manipulate. Set up the responsibilities clearly and hold her to the agreement. He should make sure that he lives up to his end of bargain also, so not to give her any opportunity to complain.

Lay down the law and don’t deviate.

TG must be nuts to suggest that the dad continue to live in the same household with the mom until the kids grow up. That would be torture!

BTW, I’m not a bitter husband but I’ve seen too many divorces and I know how they usually go.

[patientlywaiting]

Women always complain about their kids and family life especially if it’s not a happy situation.

Women always want something such as more money, help picking up the kids, help watching the kids, help cleaning, etc…, even if they already agreed to taking custody and even after the divorce.

I know it’s sexist to say so, but women always find little things to manipulate. Something always comes up that requires “modifications”.

It’s better to give her her share and get her out of his hair. Be fair to her financially but require that she goes back to work immediately.

If she can’t handle custody of the kids (which she will most likely demand) then take care of them himself, pay her alimony and say goodbye. But don’t let her nag and manipulate. Set up the responsibilities clearly and hold her to the agreement. He should make sure that he lives up to his end of bargain also, so not to give her any opportunity to complain.

Lay down the law and don’t deviate.

TG must be nuts to suggest that the dad continue to live in the same household with the mom until the kids grow up. That would be torture!

BTW, I’m not a bitter husband but I’ve seen too many divorces and I know how they usually go.

[patientlywaiting]

Women always complain about their kids and family life especially if it’s not a happy situation.

Women always want something such as more money, help picking up the kids, help watching the kids, help cleaning, etc…, even if they already agreed to taking custody and even after the divorce.

I know it’s sexist to say so, but women always find little things to manipulate. Something always comes up that requires “modifications”.

It’s better to give her her share and get her out of his hair. Be fair to her financially but require that she goes back to work immediately.

If she can’t handle custody of the kids (which she will most likely demand) then take care of them himself, pay her alimony and say goodbye. But don’t let her nag and manipulate. Set up the responsibilities clearly and hold her to the agreement. He should make sure that he lives up to his end of bargain also, so not to give her any opportunity to complain.

Lay down the law and don’t deviate.

TG must be nuts to suggest that the dad continue to live in the same household with the mom until the kids grow up. That would be torture!

BTW, I’m not a bitter husband but I’ve seen too many divorces and I know how they usually go.

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