“Although I have two kids, when I’m approached by men with children, I’m leary, very leary of taking on another family to have the man I MAY want. That’s where I am right now.”
You’ve pretty much outlined your feelings. You’re LEERY, about taking on another family so what can the rest of us tell you that would change your mind? None of the rest of us are qualified to tell you how to handle your personal relationships. What do your kids feel about this? What do his kids feel about this? What do the two of you feel about this?