Mortgage Loan approval hell

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[quote=outtamojo]”There has to be more to human existence, IMHO”

Yea, the key is to get the existence that YOU want.[/quote]

Yeah, but how would you know what you really want if your experiences are limited?

If you always lived in the Midwest, you likely would never know to order Pad Thai or Sushi at the restaurant. Ok, you might try it at Cheesecake Factory on a trip to Vegas, but that’s about it.

If you get married to your high-school sweetheart out of college, maybe you’ve limited your potential and experiences.

What makes humans special is that we always wonder what’s on the other side. That’s what the relentless pursuit of discovery is all about.

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And how would you know anything about having children and what that means to one’s life if your experience in that department is limited?

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And how would you know anything about having children and what that means to one’s life if your experience in that department is limited?

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And how would you know anything about having children and what that means to one’s life if your experience in that department is limited?

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And how would you know anything about having children and what that means to one’s life if your experience in that department is limited?

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And how would you know anything about having children and what that means to one’s life if your experience in that department is limited?

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[quote=sdrealtor]And how would you know anything about having children and what that means to one’s life if your experience in that department is limited?[/quote]

I live it vicariously through my brothers, cousins, and friends.

Many folks get married, not of their own free will, but because they got caught in the web of sex leading to pregnancy leading to marriage.

Some people don’t know that there’s any other way.

I mentioned my aunt who was born in 1922 before. She was ahead of her time. Never got married. Never had any children. And doesn’t regret.

She traveled the world and learned foreign languages during a time when women weren’t allowed much freedom. Actually, she did it during a time when few people got to go anywhere beyond their hometown. They could not even travel through television.

The mid 20th century was America’s golden age and there was a time when an ordinary American anywhere in the world would be treated almost like a celebrity. That time has passed.

My aunt enjoyed a full, rich life. It’s a good thing that she didn’t end up in a boring house in the then newly developed Levittowns of the American suburbs.

Your dream of the idyllic suburban life is not for everyone. I’ve lived that life before, and I know for sure that it’s not for me.

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[quote=sdrealtor]And how would you know anything about having children and what that means to one’s life if your experience in that department is limited?[/quote]

I live it vicariously through my brothers, cousins, and friends.

Many folks get married, not of their own free will, but because they got caught in the web of sex leading to pregnancy leading to marriage.

Some people don’t know that there’s any other way.

I mentioned my aunt who was born in 1922 before. She was ahead of her time. Never got married. Never had any children. And doesn’t regret.

She traveled the world and learned foreign languages during a time when women weren’t allowed much freedom. Actually, she did it during a time when few people got to go anywhere beyond their hometown. They could not even travel through television.

The mid 20th century was America’s golden age and there was a time when an ordinary American anywhere in the world would be treated almost like a celebrity. That time has passed.

My aunt enjoyed a full, rich life. It’s a good thing that she didn’t end up in a boring house in the then newly developed Levittowns of the American suburbs.

Your dream of the idyllic suburban life is not for everyone. I’ve lived that life before, and I know for sure that it’s not for me.

[briansd1]

[quote=sdrealtor]And how would you know anything about having children and what that means to one’s life if your experience in that department is limited?[/quote]

I live it vicariously through my brothers, cousins, and friends.

Many folks get married, not of their own free will, but because they got caught in the web of sex leading to pregnancy leading to marriage.

Some people don’t know that there’s any other way.

I mentioned my aunt who was born in 1922 before. She was ahead of her time. Never got married. Never had any children. And doesn’t regret.

She traveled the world and learned foreign languages during a time when women weren’t allowed much freedom. Actually, she did it during a time when few people got to go anywhere beyond their hometown. They could not even travel through television.

The mid 20th century was America’s golden age and there was a time when an ordinary American anywhere in the world would be treated almost like a celebrity. That time has passed.

My aunt enjoyed a full, rich life. It’s a good thing that she didn’t end up in a boring house in the then newly developed Levittowns of the American suburbs.

Your dream of the idyllic suburban life is not for everyone. I’ve lived that life before, and I know for sure that it’s not for me.

[briansd1]

[quote=sdrealtor]And how would you know anything about having children and what that means to one’s life if your experience in that department is limited?[/quote]

I live it vicariously through my brothers, cousins, and friends.

Many folks get married, not of their own free will, but because they got caught in the web of sex leading to pregnancy leading to marriage.

Some people don’t know that there’s any other way.

I mentioned my aunt who was born in 1922 before. She was ahead of her time. Never got married. Never had any children. And doesn’t regret.

She traveled the world and learned foreign languages during a time when women weren’t allowed much freedom. Actually, she did it during a time when few people got to go anywhere beyond their hometown. They could not even travel through television.

The mid 20th century was America’s golden age and there was a time when an ordinary American anywhere in the world would be treated almost like a celebrity. That time has passed.

My aunt enjoyed a full, rich life. It’s a good thing that she didn’t end up in a boring house in the then newly developed Levittowns of the American suburbs.

Your dream of the idyllic suburban life is not for everyone. I’ve lived that life before, and I know for sure that it’s not for me.

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[quote=sdrealtor]And how would you know anything about having children and what that means to one’s life if your experience in that department is limited?[/quote]

I live it vicariously through my brothers, cousins, and friends.

Many folks get married, not of their own free will, but because they got caught in the web of sex leading to pregnancy leading to marriage.

Some people don’t know that there’s any other way.

I mentioned my aunt who was born in 1922 before. She was ahead of her time. Never got married. Never had any children. And doesn’t regret.

She traveled the world and learned foreign languages during a time when women weren’t allowed much freedom. Actually, she did it during a time when few people got to go anywhere beyond their hometown. They could not even travel through television.

The mid 20th century was America’s golden age and there was a time when an ordinary American anywhere in the world would be treated almost like a celebrity. That time has passed.

My aunt enjoyed a full, rich life. It’s a good thing that she didn’t end up in a boring house in the then newly developed Levittowns of the American suburbs.

Your dream of the idyllic suburban life is not for everyone. I’ve lived that life before, and I know for sure that it’s not for me.

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I think ottamojo encapsulated the essence of the way OT, but interesting, turn this thread has taken.

At the end of your life, if you can say YOU lived the life YOU (and your loved ones) wanted to live–that’s all that really matters.

Thankfully, my family and I have, with no regrets.

To the OP–I truly hope your mortgage situation works out, and that you enjoy many great years in your new home!

[flyer]

I think ottamojo encapsulated the essence of the way OT, but interesting, turn this thread has taken.

At the end of your life, if you can say YOU lived the life YOU (and your loved ones) wanted to live–that’s all that really matters.

Thankfully, my family and I have, with no regrets.

To the OP–I truly hope your mortgage situation works out, and that you enjoy many great years in your new home!

[flyer]

I think ottamojo encapsulated the essence of the way OT, but interesting, turn this thread has taken.

At the end of your life, if you can say YOU lived the life YOU (and your loved ones) wanted to live–that’s all that really matters.

Thankfully, my family and I have, with no regrets.

To the OP–I truly hope your mortgage situation works out, and that you enjoy many great years in your new home!

[flyer]

I think ottamojo encapsulated the essence of the way OT, but interesting, turn this thread has taken.

At the end of your life, if you can say YOU lived the life YOU (and your loved ones) wanted to live–that’s all that really matters.

Thankfully, my family and I have, with no regrets.

To the OP–I truly hope your mortgage situation works out, and that you enjoy many great years in your new home!

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