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May 22, 2008 at 9:01 AM #209771May 22, 2008 at 9:18 AM #209650
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Participant“bad” decisions are always born out of trauma or lack of emotional understanding (there is knowing better and then there is knowing better on an emotional level).
I have to disagree with this.. I would have to add that bad decisions are also born out of “living in and for the moment”. This type of mentality is often held by people who have been continually rescued since childhood. (Like many of the current young adults these days.)
May 22, 2008 at 9:18 AM #209711Participant“bad” decisions are always born out of trauma or lack of emotional understanding (there is knowing better and then there is knowing better on an emotional level).
I have to disagree with this.. I would have to add that bad decisions are also born out of “living in and for the moment”. This type of mentality is often held by people who have been continually rescued since childhood. (Like many of the current young adults these days.)
May 22, 2008 at 9:18 AM #209741Participant“bad” decisions are always born out of trauma or lack of emotional understanding (there is knowing better and then there is knowing better on an emotional level).
I have to disagree with this.. I would have to add that bad decisions are also born out of “living in and for the moment”. This type of mentality is often held by people who have been continually rescued since childhood. (Like many of the current young adults these days.)
May 22, 2008 at 9:18 AM #209764Participant“bad” decisions are always born out of trauma or lack of emotional understanding (there is knowing better and then there is knowing better on an emotional level).
I have to disagree with this.. I would have to add that bad decisions are also born out of “living in and for the moment”. This type of mentality is often held by people who have been continually rescued since childhood. (Like many of the current young adults these days.)
May 22, 2008 at 9:18 AM #209799Participant“bad” decisions are always born out of trauma or lack of emotional understanding (there is knowing better and then there is knowing better on an emotional level).
I have to disagree with this.. I would have to add that bad decisions are also born out of “living in and for the moment”. This type of mentality is often held by people who have been continually rescued since childhood. (Like many of the current young adults these days.)
May 22, 2008 at 9:57 AM #209690vagabondo
Participant"compassion – to me – is simply opening my heart and eliminating judgment.
A recognition that everyone is perfect and beautiful just as they are."
Your confusing compassion with consequences. I have compassion for my children (as perfect as they are) when they do something wrong. I also let them know that, while I love them, there are consequences for their decisions. Without consequences, those poor choices have a higher degree of repeating themselves.
May 22, 2008 at 9:57 AM #209752Participant"compassion – to me – is simply opening my heart and eliminating judgment.
A recognition that everyone is perfect and beautiful just as they are."
Your confusing compassion with consequences. I have compassion for my children (as perfect as they are) when they do something wrong. I also let them know that, while I love them, there are consequences for their decisions. Without consequences, those poor choices have a higher degree of repeating themselves.
May 22, 2008 at 9:57 AM #209784Participant"compassion – to me – is simply opening my heart and eliminating judgment.
A recognition that everyone is perfect and beautiful just as they are."
Your confusing compassion with consequences. I have compassion for my children (as perfect as they are) when they do something wrong. I also let them know that, while I love them, there are consequences for their decisions. Without consequences, those poor choices have a higher degree of repeating themselves.
May 22, 2008 at 9:57 AM #209802Participant"compassion – to me – is simply opening my heart and eliminating judgment.
A recognition that everyone is perfect and beautiful just as they are."
Your confusing compassion with consequences. I have compassion for my children (as perfect as they are) when they do something wrong. I also let them know that, while I love them, there are consequences for their decisions. Without consequences, those poor choices have a higher degree of repeating themselves.
May 22, 2008 at 9:57 AM #209837Participant"compassion – to me – is simply opening my heart and eliminating judgment.
A recognition that everyone is perfect and beautiful just as they are."
Your confusing compassion with consequences. I have compassion for my children (as perfect as they are) when they do something wrong. I also let them know that, while I love them, there are consequences for their decisions. Without consequences, those poor choices have a higher degree of repeating themselves.
May 22, 2008 at 10:12 AM #209710Enorah
Participantvagabondo, I am not confused.
Nor am I saying that there is no need for cause and effect.
That is how we learn and grow.
May 22, 2008 at 10:12 AM #209775Participantvagabondo, I am not confused.
Nor am I saying that there is no need for cause and effect.
That is how we learn and grow.
May 22, 2008 at 10:12 AM #209805Participantvagabondo, I am not confused.
Nor am I saying that there is no need for cause and effect.
That is how we learn and grow.
May 22, 2008 at 10:12 AM #209824Participantvagabondo, I am not confused.
Nor am I saying that there is no need for cause and effect.
That is how we learn and grow.
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