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November 28, 2007 at 8:18 AM #104355November 28, 2007 at 8:21 AM #104217nostradamusParticipant
You really need to get a lawyer. Your lawyer will investigate his assets and answer all these questions for you. The case will likely settle in mediation without going to a judge.
If it does go to the judge, I hope he/she is impartial and fair to both parties.
November 28, 2007 at 8:21 AM #104302nostradamusParticipantYou really need to get a lawyer. Your lawyer will investigate his assets and answer all these questions for you. The case will likely settle in mediation without going to a judge.
If it does go to the judge, I hope he/she is impartial and fair to both parties.
November 28, 2007 at 8:21 AM #104313nostradamusParticipantYou really need to get a lawyer. Your lawyer will investigate his assets and answer all these questions for you. The case will likely settle in mediation without going to a judge.
If it does go to the judge, I hope he/she is impartial and fair to both parties.
November 28, 2007 at 8:21 AM #104339nostradamusParticipantYou really need to get a lawyer. Your lawyer will investigate his assets and answer all these questions for you. The case will likely settle in mediation without going to a judge.
If it does go to the judge, I hope he/she is impartial and fair to both parties.
November 28, 2007 at 8:21 AM #104360nostradamusParticipantYou really need to get a lawyer. Your lawyer will investigate his assets and answer all these questions for you. The case will likely settle in mediation without going to a judge.
If it does go to the judge, I hope he/she is impartial and fair to both parties.
November 28, 2007 at 8:29 AM #104232greekfireParticipantI am sorry to hear about your situation. I have a good friend that is going through the same thing. Divorce sucks. Anyways, I think you both should come to some sort of compromise. Expecting him to pay support on an assumed salary of $155k is unrealistic. You don’t need a mortgage expert to understand the market isn’t what it was back in 2003. At the same time, he should sac-up and help you raise the child(ren) you both had together.
Educating yourself was a good move. You might consider increasing your attempts at building a strong network in your area. Try to befriend moms or dads in a similar situation. They might be able to help you through this transition phase while you get established in your new career (e.g., find a good, inexpensive day care). I wish you the best of luck.
November 28, 2007 at 8:29 AM #104317greekfireParticipantI am sorry to hear about your situation. I have a good friend that is going through the same thing. Divorce sucks. Anyways, I think you both should come to some sort of compromise. Expecting him to pay support on an assumed salary of $155k is unrealistic. You don’t need a mortgage expert to understand the market isn’t what it was back in 2003. At the same time, he should sac-up and help you raise the child(ren) you both had together.
Educating yourself was a good move. You might consider increasing your attempts at building a strong network in your area. Try to befriend moms or dads in a similar situation. They might be able to help you through this transition phase while you get established in your new career (e.g., find a good, inexpensive day care). I wish you the best of luck.
November 28, 2007 at 8:29 AM #104329greekfireParticipantI am sorry to hear about your situation. I have a good friend that is going through the same thing. Divorce sucks. Anyways, I think you both should come to some sort of compromise. Expecting him to pay support on an assumed salary of $155k is unrealistic. You don’t need a mortgage expert to understand the market isn’t what it was back in 2003. At the same time, he should sac-up and help you raise the child(ren) you both had together.
Educating yourself was a good move. You might consider increasing your attempts at building a strong network in your area. Try to befriend moms or dads in a similar situation. They might be able to help you through this transition phase while you get established in your new career (e.g., find a good, inexpensive day care). I wish you the best of luck.
November 28, 2007 at 8:29 AM #104354greekfireParticipantI am sorry to hear about your situation. I have a good friend that is going through the same thing. Divorce sucks. Anyways, I think you both should come to some sort of compromise. Expecting him to pay support on an assumed salary of $155k is unrealistic. You don’t need a mortgage expert to understand the market isn’t what it was back in 2003. At the same time, he should sac-up and help you raise the child(ren) you both had together.
Educating yourself was a good move. You might consider increasing your attempts at building a strong network in your area. Try to befriend moms or dads in a similar situation. They might be able to help you through this transition phase while you get established in your new career (e.g., find a good, inexpensive day care). I wish you the best of luck.
November 28, 2007 at 8:29 AM #104373greekfireParticipantI am sorry to hear about your situation. I have a good friend that is going through the same thing. Divorce sucks. Anyways, I think you both should come to some sort of compromise. Expecting him to pay support on an assumed salary of $155k is unrealistic. You don’t need a mortgage expert to understand the market isn’t what it was back in 2003. At the same time, he should sac-up and help you raise the child(ren) you both had together.
Educating yourself was a good move. You might consider increasing your attempts at building a strong network in your area. Try to befriend moms or dads in a similar situation. They might be able to help you through this transition phase while you get established in your new career (e.g., find a good, inexpensive day care). I wish you the best of luck.
November 28, 2007 at 10:09 AM #104316AnonymousGuest“what is the disability for a loan broker, a paper cut?”
Well, according to him, he has “facial nerve damage” and it is worsened by heat, stress, climate changes. Of course, i think it’s a bunch of bull. His has just started his own “jumper rental” business and estimates his monthly earnings will be between 2-3k.
“He can also ask the court to impute your new expected income as a benefit from your schooling, which would adjust down your prior support level anyway.”
I guess the judge can and that’s what I’m afraid of. I have been searching since I graduated. I have the applications and rejection letters to prove it.
Thanks for all responses. To some of you, he wasn’t a mortgage broker, but rather a “mortgage loan officer” that worked for a large, well-known company.
note: We’ve been divorced and he’s being paying child support and alimony since then. He recently asked for a hearing to have it reduced since his private disability insurance cut him off. Neither of us have lawyers. I should get one.
November 28, 2007 at 10:09 AM #104404AnonymousGuest“what is the disability for a loan broker, a paper cut?”
Well, according to him, he has “facial nerve damage” and it is worsened by heat, stress, climate changes. Of course, i think it’s a bunch of bull. His has just started his own “jumper rental” business and estimates his monthly earnings will be between 2-3k.
“He can also ask the court to impute your new expected income as a benefit from your schooling, which would adjust down your prior support level anyway.”
I guess the judge can and that’s what I’m afraid of. I have been searching since I graduated. I have the applications and rejection letters to prove it.
Thanks for all responses. To some of you, he wasn’t a mortgage broker, but rather a “mortgage loan officer” that worked for a large, well-known company.
note: We’ve been divorced and he’s being paying child support and alimony since then. He recently asked for a hearing to have it reduced since his private disability insurance cut him off. Neither of us have lawyers. I should get one.
November 28, 2007 at 10:09 AM #104414AnonymousGuest“what is the disability for a loan broker, a paper cut?”
Well, according to him, he has “facial nerve damage” and it is worsened by heat, stress, climate changes. Of course, i think it’s a bunch of bull. His has just started his own “jumper rental” business and estimates his monthly earnings will be between 2-3k.
“He can also ask the court to impute your new expected income as a benefit from your schooling, which would adjust down your prior support level anyway.”
I guess the judge can and that’s what I’m afraid of. I have been searching since I graduated. I have the applications and rejection letters to prove it.
Thanks for all responses. To some of you, he wasn’t a mortgage broker, but rather a “mortgage loan officer” that worked for a large, well-known company.
note: We’ve been divorced and he’s being paying child support and alimony since then. He recently asked for a hearing to have it reduced since his private disability insurance cut him off. Neither of us have lawyers. I should get one.
November 28, 2007 at 10:09 AM #104440AnonymousGuest“what is the disability for a loan broker, a paper cut?”
Well, according to him, he has “facial nerve damage” and it is worsened by heat, stress, climate changes. Of course, i think it’s a bunch of bull. His has just started his own “jumper rental” business and estimates his monthly earnings will be between 2-3k.
“He can also ask the court to impute your new expected income as a benefit from your schooling, which would adjust down your prior support level anyway.”
I guess the judge can and that’s what I’m afraid of. I have been searching since I graduated. I have the applications and rejection letters to prove it.
Thanks for all responses. To some of you, he wasn’t a mortgage broker, but rather a “mortgage loan officer” that worked for a large, well-known company.
note: We’ve been divorced and he’s being paying child support and alimony since then. He recently asked for a hearing to have it reduced since his private disability insurance cut him off. Neither of us have lawyers. I should get one.
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