how much is he worth?

[Coronita]

Hey, fat lazy, dump the wife and let's talk. I'll whip ya into shape and make you like it. hehe.

In california, anything after 10 years or so (maybe 7) is considered a long-term marriage. So, theorectically, the ex could be paying me alimony for the rest of his life. However, the amount would depend on what I earn and my needs.

Have you and your wife attempted a compromise on the stay-at-home issue. For instance, suggest to her that she stay-at-home with your child until she/he reaches kindergarten or first grade, then she can go back to work.

 

Yes we talked.

Three words: unvested stock options…..on both sides, and this would be a significant hit, not that we are really dependent on them anyway. Also, in the engineering profession, leaving for 2-3 years and coming back really isn't an option. Because you're skills will be outdated.

 

 

 

[Anonymous]

blue sky: “Crap, I wish I could get that. When I get home I get to take care of the kid, make dinner and do dishes. And I make more in a paycheck that she’s ever made in a year (thus her stay at home status).”

Oh, hell no. You’re not being treated right. I’ll have a hot dinner waiting, your slippers at the door, the kid fed and in bed. Next a nice, warm bubbble bath complete with a lingering back massage and then…

Wait! I’m not from Cuba! I’m one of those “American b*tches”

🙂

[Anonymous]

blue sky: “Crap, I wish I could get that. When I get home I get to take care of the kid, make dinner and do dishes. And I make more in a paycheck that she’s ever made in a year (thus her stay at home status).”

Oh, hell no. You’re not being treated right. I’ll have a hot dinner waiting, your slippers at the door, the kid fed and in bed. Next a nice, warm bubbble bath complete with a lingering back massage and then…

Wait! I’m not from Cuba! I’m one of those “American b*tches”

🙂

[Anonymous]

blue sky: “Crap, I wish I could get that. When I get home I get to take care of the kid, make dinner and do dishes. And I make more in a paycheck that she’s ever made in a year (thus her stay at home status).”

Oh, hell no. You’re not being treated right. I’ll have a hot dinner waiting, your slippers at the door, the kid fed and in bed. Next a nice, warm bubbble bath complete with a lingering back massage and then…

Wait! I’m not from Cuba! I’m one of those “American b*tches”

🙂

[Anonymous]

blue sky: “Crap, I wish I could get that. When I get home I get to take care of the kid, make dinner and do dishes. And I make more in a paycheck that she’s ever made in a year (thus her stay at home status).”

Oh, hell no. You’re not being treated right. I’ll have a hot dinner waiting, your slippers at the door, the kid fed and in bed. Next a nice, warm bubbble bath complete with a lingering back massage and then…

Wait! I’m not from Cuba! I’m one of those “American b*tches”

🙂

[Anonymous]

blue sky: “Crap, I wish I could get that. When I get home I get to take care of the kid, make dinner and do dishes. And I make more in a paycheck that she’s ever made in a year (thus her stay at home status).”

Oh, hell no. You’re not being treated right. I’ll have a hot dinner waiting, your slippers at the door, the kid fed and in bed. Next a nice, warm bubbble bath complete with a lingering back massage and then…

Wait! I’m not from Cuba! I’m one of those “American b*tches”

🙂

[mgubnyc1]

I’ll answer your question, YOUR EX IS MAYBE WORTH 2,000 A MONTH.

so it’s a good thing you live in Murrieta, I hear real estate in that area is not doing very well so do you own or are you renting?

how did you find this site? did you google “what is my ex worth” then you were directed to the Professor Piggington right?

Professor Piggington

[mgubnyc1]

I’ll answer your question, YOUR EX IS MAYBE WORTH 2,000 A MONTH.

so it’s a good thing you live in Murrieta, I hear real estate in that area is not doing very well so do you own or are you renting?

how did you find this site? did you google “what is my ex worth” then you were directed to the Professor Piggington right?

Professor Piggington

[mgubnyc1]

I’ll answer your question, YOUR EX IS MAYBE WORTH 2,000 A MONTH.

so it’s a good thing you live in Murrieta, I hear real estate in that area is not doing very well so do you own or are you renting?

how did you find this site? did you google “what is my ex worth” then you were directed to the Professor Piggington right?

Professor Piggington

[mgubnyc1]

I’ll answer your question, YOUR EX IS MAYBE WORTH 2,000 A MONTH.

so it’s a good thing you live in Murrieta, I hear real estate in that area is not doing very well so do you own or are you renting?

how did you find this site? did you google “what is my ex worth” then you were directed to the Professor Piggington right?

Professor Piggington

[mgubnyc1]

I’ll answer your question, YOUR EX IS MAYBE WORTH 2,000 A MONTH.

so it’s a good thing you live in Murrieta, I hear real estate in that area is not doing very well so do you own or are you renting?

how did you find this site? did you google “what is my ex worth” then you were directed to the Professor Piggington right?

Professor Piggington

[Anonymous]

“Three words: unvested stock options…..on both sides, and this would be a significant hit, not that we are really dependent on them anyway. Also, in the engineering profession, leaving for 2-3 years and coming back really isn’t an option. Because you’re skills will be outdated.”

In my very conventional opinion, kids always come first. While married, the only way I would have worked while my kids were toddlers and babies was if my own mother could have watched them. And then, I’d take at least a year off right after they were born. I don’t know, if you’re not really dependent on the stock option thing, maybe you could talk to your wife again.

There has to be a way she can update her skills if she took time off to raise your child. A few classes might be in order, but I don’t see how it would be impossible. Nothing is impossible if you want it bad enough.

Ultimately it will be her decision unless you want to stay home and raise your child.

[Anonymous]

“Three words: unvested stock options…..on both sides, and this would be a significant hit, not that we are really dependent on them anyway. Also, in the engineering profession, leaving for 2-3 years and coming back really isn’t an option. Because you’re skills will be outdated.”

In my very conventional opinion, kids always come first. While married, the only way I would have worked while my kids were toddlers and babies was if my own mother could have watched them. And then, I’d take at least a year off right after they were born. I don’t know, if you’re not really dependent on the stock option thing, maybe you could talk to your wife again.

There has to be a way she can update her skills if she took time off to raise your child. A few classes might be in order, but I don’t see how it would be impossible. Nothing is impossible if you want it bad enough.

Ultimately it will be her decision unless you want to stay home and raise your child.

[Anonymous]

“Three words: unvested stock options…..on both sides, and this would be a significant hit, not that we are really dependent on them anyway. Also, in the engineering profession, leaving for 2-3 years and coming back really isn’t an option. Because you’re skills will be outdated.”

In my very conventional opinion, kids always come first. While married, the only way I would have worked while my kids were toddlers and babies was if my own mother could have watched them. And then, I’d take at least a year off right after they were born. I don’t know, if you’re not really dependent on the stock option thing, maybe you could talk to your wife again.

There has to be a way she can update her skills if she took time off to raise your child. A few classes might be in order, but I don’t see how it would be impossible. Nothing is impossible if you want it bad enough.

Ultimately it will be her decision unless you want to stay home and raise your child.

[Anonymous]

“Three words: unvested stock options…..on both sides, and this would be a significant hit, not that we are really dependent on them anyway. Also, in the engineering profession, leaving for 2-3 years and coming back really isn’t an option. Because you’re skills will be outdated.”

In my very conventional opinion, kids always come first. While married, the only way I would have worked while my kids were toddlers and babies was if my own mother could have watched them. And then, I’d take at least a year off right after they were born. I don’t know, if you’re not really dependent on the stock option thing, maybe you could talk to your wife again.

There has to be a way she can update her skills if she took time off to raise your child. A few classes might be in order, but I don’t see how it would be impossible. Nothing is impossible if you want it bad enough.

Ultimately it will be her decision unless you want to stay home and raise your child.

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