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August 13, 2010 at 7:49 PM #591637August 13, 2010 at 7:53 PM #590584
Coronita
ParticipantJust be thankful you are still married…for now….Keep it up, and soon you’ll find it otherwise…
FLU lesson is: there are some things in life not worth fighting. I think this is one of them….
I don’t think your wife is asking to buy a $1million+ place. Just do it and get it done…A lot of problems I think is self induced (by both you and spouse)…Absolutely not necessary…Consider there are a lot more issues you could be worrying about that fortunately, neither of you do (no health issues, no issues with kids,etc).
Note #2: don’t vent about your spouse on public forums unless you want to be a tool like this guy…
http://www.acurazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=770786
(The fun starts on page2, post 44 where “Rachael” posts a response…Dumbass)…
http://www.acurazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=770786&page=2
Corollary: picking a car of a woman is just dumb (unless it’s an R8, of course)
August 13, 2010 at 7:53 PM #590678Coronita
ParticipantJust be thankful you are still married…for now….Keep it up, and soon you’ll find it otherwise…
FLU lesson is: there are some things in life not worth fighting. I think this is one of them….
I don’t think your wife is asking to buy a $1million+ place. Just do it and get it done…A lot of problems I think is self induced (by both you and spouse)…Absolutely not necessary…Consider there are a lot more issues you could be worrying about that fortunately, neither of you do (no health issues, no issues with kids,etc).
Note #2: don’t vent about your spouse on public forums unless you want to be a tool like this guy…
http://www.acurazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=770786
(The fun starts on page2, post 44 where “Rachael” posts a response…Dumbass)…
http://www.acurazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=770786&page=2
Corollary: picking a car of a woman is just dumb (unless it’s an R8, of course)
August 13, 2010 at 7:53 PM #591215Coronita
ParticipantJust be thankful you are still married…for now….Keep it up, and soon you’ll find it otherwise…
FLU lesson is: there are some things in life not worth fighting. I think this is one of them….
I don’t think your wife is asking to buy a $1million+ place. Just do it and get it done…A lot of problems I think is self induced (by both you and spouse)…Absolutely not necessary…Consider there are a lot more issues you could be worrying about that fortunately, neither of you do (no health issues, no issues with kids,etc).
Note #2: don’t vent about your spouse on public forums unless you want to be a tool like this guy…
http://www.acurazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=770786
(The fun starts on page2, post 44 where “Rachael” posts a response…Dumbass)…
http://www.acurazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=770786&page=2
Corollary: picking a car of a woman is just dumb (unless it’s an R8, of course)
August 13, 2010 at 7:53 PM #591324Coronita
ParticipantJust be thankful you are still married…for now….Keep it up, and soon you’ll find it otherwise…
FLU lesson is: there are some things in life not worth fighting. I think this is one of them….
I don’t think your wife is asking to buy a $1million+ place. Just do it and get it done…A lot of problems I think is self induced (by both you and spouse)…Absolutely not necessary…Consider there are a lot more issues you could be worrying about that fortunately, neither of you do (no health issues, no issues with kids,etc).
Note #2: don’t vent about your spouse on public forums unless you want to be a tool like this guy…
http://www.acurazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=770786
(The fun starts on page2, post 44 where “Rachael” posts a response…Dumbass)…
http://www.acurazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=770786&page=2
Corollary: picking a car of a woman is just dumb (unless it’s an R8, of course)
August 13, 2010 at 7:53 PM #591632Coronita
ParticipantJust be thankful you are still married…for now….Keep it up, and soon you’ll find it otherwise…
FLU lesson is: there are some things in life not worth fighting. I think this is one of them….
I don’t think your wife is asking to buy a $1million+ place. Just do it and get it done…A lot of problems I think is self induced (by both you and spouse)…Absolutely not necessary…Consider there are a lot more issues you could be worrying about that fortunately, neither of you do (no health issues, no issues with kids,etc).
Note #2: don’t vent about your spouse on public forums unless you want to be a tool like this guy…
http://www.acurazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=770786
(The fun starts on page2, post 44 where “Rachael” posts a response…Dumbass)…
http://www.acurazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=770786&page=2
Corollary: picking a car of a woman is just dumb (unless it’s an R8, of course)
August 13, 2010 at 8:20 PM #590594SD Realtor
ParticipantSounds like a pretty bad situation.
My advice though would be to not play the, “do whatever you want” card. If you are gonna buckle and buy the home then being proactive and being a part of the process with your wife will play out a whole lot better then pouting and saying do what you want and I will go along for the ride.
For better or for worse man….
August 13, 2010 at 8:20 PM #590688SD Realtor
ParticipantSounds like a pretty bad situation.
My advice though would be to not play the, “do whatever you want” card. If you are gonna buckle and buy the home then being proactive and being a part of the process with your wife will play out a whole lot better then pouting and saying do what you want and I will go along for the ride.
For better or for worse man….
August 13, 2010 at 8:20 PM #591225SD Realtor
ParticipantSounds like a pretty bad situation.
My advice though would be to not play the, “do whatever you want” card. If you are gonna buckle and buy the home then being proactive and being a part of the process with your wife will play out a whole lot better then pouting and saying do what you want and I will go along for the ride.
For better or for worse man….
August 13, 2010 at 8:20 PM #591334SD Realtor
ParticipantSounds like a pretty bad situation.
My advice though would be to not play the, “do whatever you want” card. If you are gonna buckle and buy the home then being proactive and being a part of the process with your wife will play out a whole lot better then pouting and saying do what you want and I will go along for the ride.
For better or for worse man….
August 13, 2010 at 8:20 PM #591642SD Realtor
ParticipantSounds like a pretty bad situation.
My advice though would be to not play the, “do whatever you want” card. If you are gonna buckle and buy the home then being proactive and being a part of the process with your wife will play out a whole lot better then pouting and saying do what you want and I will go along for the ride.
For better or for worse man….
August 13, 2010 at 8:40 PM #590599Coronita
ParticipantI’ll give you another true short story, about one of my friends.
Both of his parents were utterly complete misers. The saved every penny, penny pinched, to the point that they didn’t enjoy any of it. When asked, they use to say, they needed to save like misers, for the future…
Then his mom died…His father remarried someone half his age. Though she wasn’t necessarily a gold-digging spend-like-there’s-no-tomorrow, she obviously needed to be well kept. A year later, his dad died too. Guess were most of that hard earned/saved money went?
Morale of the story. If you pass away, chances are your spouse will remarry. Why should you make it easy for your spouse’s future significant other to enjoy what you should have enjoyed yourself?
Think about it.
August 13, 2010 at 8:40 PM #590693Coronita
ParticipantI’ll give you another true short story, about one of my friends.
Both of his parents were utterly complete misers. The saved every penny, penny pinched, to the point that they didn’t enjoy any of it. When asked, they use to say, they needed to save like misers, for the future…
Then his mom died…His father remarried someone half his age. Though she wasn’t necessarily a gold-digging spend-like-there’s-no-tomorrow, she obviously needed to be well kept. A year later, his dad died too. Guess were most of that hard earned/saved money went?
Morale of the story. If you pass away, chances are your spouse will remarry. Why should you make it easy for your spouse’s future significant other to enjoy what you should have enjoyed yourself?
Think about it.
August 13, 2010 at 8:40 PM #591230Coronita
ParticipantI’ll give you another true short story, about one of my friends.
Both of his parents were utterly complete misers. The saved every penny, penny pinched, to the point that they didn’t enjoy any of it. When asked, they use to say, they needed to save like misers, for the future…
Then his mom died…His father remarried someone half his age. Though she wasn’t necessarily a gold-digging spend-like-there’s-no-tomorrow, she obviously needed to be well kept. A year later, his dad died too. Guess were most of that hard earned/saved money went?
Morale of the story. If you pass away, chances are your spouse will remarry. Why should you make it easy for your spouse’s future significant other to enjoy what you should have enjoyed yourself?
Think about it.
August 13, 2010 at 8:40 PM #591339Coronita
ParticipantI’ll give you another true short story, about one of my friends.
Both of his parents were utterly complete misers. The saved every penny, penny pinched, to the point that they didn’t enjoy any of it. When asked, they use to say, they needed to save like misers, for the future…
Then his mom died…His father remarried someone half his age. Though she wasn’t necessarily a gold-digging spend-like-there’s-no-tomorrow, she obviously needed to be well kept. A year later, his dad died too. Guess were most of that hard earned/saved money went?
Morale of the story. If you pass away, chances are your spouse will remarry. Why should you make it easy for your spouse’s future significant other to enjoy what you should have enjoyed yourself?
Think about it.
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