Anyone know a good divorce lawyer?

[zzz]

Marion – yes you’re clearly a child. Your comment that Nostra is bitter, how he claims to be successful yet he hasn’t been able to find a girlfriend – that’s about as ridiculous as me saying that obviously you’re a loser and failure in life because you’re divorced and have failed at relationships. Not everyone defines their success in life on whether they have a significant other.

As a woman, I find your type of woman to be the most distasteful – someone who claims to be a strong independent woman but wants spousal support, men to buy your dinner, park your car, carry your bag, can’t forget the Cristal and the most important part – has a sense of entitlement and bitches when she doesn’t get the above. A successful woman doesn’t “need” a man to do these things for her. Its a bonus when a man does possess chivalry, but you can’t want a man to do more than his fair share and argue that you want equal pay in the workplace. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a mate who’s a gentleman, but you have to ask yourself, what do you contribute to the equation? You want a man to find you attractive, but not if he tells you he likes your ass- can you see how confusing this can be for men? Life isn’t fair and merit doesn’t get handed to you – you have to earn it, so stop crying!

We live in a time where the dynamic between woman and men are complex. We often compete for the same things, yet struggle to discern how close or far we want to vascillate from traditional womanly and manly duties/norms from past generations and most importantly how to divvy those tasks that used to fall into obvious buckets. Breadwinner= man, nurturer of the family / domestic maiden= woman. Just because no ones written the playbook on the modern day couple, you as a self proclaimed successful woman don’t have to be that stereotypical I want my cake and eat it too, but if I can’t, I’m going to whine about it. Enough with the self entitlement. Don’t dish it out if you can’t take it. Go put on your big girl pants and come back when you’re ready to write something insightful and intelligent without calling others names when you don’t like what others are have to say. Its SO FIFTH GRADE!

[nostradamus]

golfgal your husband is a lucky man.  We definitely do live in a time of complexity between men and women.  I am lucky to have 8 accomplished sisters.  A professor, a published writer, a real estate mogul, a politician…  I think that being exposed to such hard-working and liberated women leaves me with no pity for the whiny, self-entitled ones.  I could date more but I want someone with brains and ability, yet all these young women want is my luscious ass!!! 😛 ha ha

Marion is the 2nd person to call me bitter, RatherOpinionated was the first.  Remember that lovable character?

[nostradamus]

golfgal your husband is a lucky man.  We definitely do live in a time of complexity between men and women.  I am lucky to have 8 accomplished sisters.  A professor, a published writer, a real estate mogul, a politician…  I think that being exposed to such hard-working and liberated women leaves me with no pity for the whiny, self-entitled ones.  I could date more but I want someone with brains and ability, yet all these young women want is my luscious ass!!! 😛 ha ha

Marion is the 2nd person to call me bitter, RatherOpinionated was the first.  Remember that lovable character?

[nostradamus]

golfgal your husband is a lucky man.  We definitely do live in a time of complexity between men and women.  I am lucky to have 8 accomplished sisters.  A professor, a published writer, a real estate mogul, a politician…  I think that being exposed to such hard-working and liberated women leaves me with no pity for the whiny, self-entitled ones.  I could date more but I want someone with brains and ability, yet all these young women want is my luscious ass!!! 😛 ha ha

Marion is the 2nd person to call me bitter, RatherOpinionated was the first.  Remember that lovable character?

[nostradamus]

golfgal your husband is a lucky man.  We definitely do live in a time of complexity between men and women.  I am lucky to have 8 accomplished sisters.  A professor, a published writer, a real estate mogul, a politician…  I think that being exposed to such hard-working and liberated women leaves me with no pity for the whiny, self-entitled ones.  I could date more but I want someone with brains and ability, yet all these young women want is my luscious ass!!! 😛 ha ha

Marion is the 2nd person to call me bitter, RatherOpinionated was the first.  Remember that lovable character?

[nostradamus]

golfgal your husband is a lucky man.  We definitely do live in a time of complexity between men and women.  I am lucky to have 8 accomplished sisters.  A professor, a published writer, a real estate mogul, a politician…  I think that being exposed to such hard-working and liberated women leaves me with no pity for the whiny, self-entitled ones.  I could date more but I want someone with brains and ability, yet all these young women want is my luscious ass!!! 😛 ha ha

Marion is the 2nd person to call me bitter, RatherOpinionated was the first.  Remember that lovable character?

[zzz]

Haha- I’m not sure its so much luck as its about being honest with who you are, and what you want in life in every facet of your life, including with your mate. Life is complex enough, there is no need to make it more so by pretending or trying to be someone you’re not. Just call a spade a spade and get on with it. I know a lot of men who feel your pain – glad to hear you’re holding out for the right one versus settling!

[zzz]

Haha- I’m not sure its so much luck as its about being honest with who you are, and what you want in life in every facet of your life, including with your mate. Life is complex enough, there is no need to make it more so by pretending or trying to be someone you’re not. Just call a spade a spade and get on with it. I know a lot of men who feel your pain – glad to hear you’re holding out for the right one versus settling!

[zzz]

Haha- I’m not sure its so much luck as its about being honest with who you are, and what you want in life in every facet of your life, including with your mate. Life is complex enough, there is no need to make it more so by pretending or trying to be someone you’re not. Just call a spade a spade and get on with it. I know a lot of men who feel your pain – glad to hear you’re holding out for the right one versus settling!

[zzz]

Haha- I’m not sure its so much luck as its about being honest with who you are, and what you want in life in every facet of your life, including with your mate. Life is complex enough, there is no need to make it more so by pretending or trying to be someone you’re not. Just call a spade a spade and get on with it. I know a lot of men who feel your pain – glad to hear you’re holding out for the right one versus settling!

[zzz]

Haha- I’m not sure its so much luck as its about being honest with who you are, and what you want in life in every facet of your life, including with your mate. Life is complex enough, there is no need to make it more so by pretending or trying to be someone you’re not. Just call a spade a spade and get on with it. I know a lot of men who feel your pain – glad to hear you’re holding out for the right one versus settling!

[justme]

Golfgal, I agree with you.

I usually like to sum the problem up like this:

Women want to be equal to men, but at the same time they want the men (or rather, their own mates) to be better than them.

There’s of course no general solution to finding a mate when such a double standard is applied.

[justme]

Golfgal, I agree with you.

I usually like to sum the problem up like this:

Women want to be equal to men, but at the same time they want the men (or rather, their own mates) to be better than them.

There’s of course no general solution to finding a mate when such a double standard is applied.

[justme]

Golfgal, I agree with you.

I usually like to sum the problem up like this:

Women want to be equal to men, but at the same time they want the men (or rather, their own mates) to be better than them.

There’s of course no general solution to finding a mate when such a double standard is applied.

[justme]

Golfgal, I agree with you.

I usually like to sum the problem up like this:

Women want to be equal to men, but at the same time they want the men (or rather, their own mates) to be better than them.

There’s of course no general solution to finding a mate when such a double standard is applied.

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