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December 11, 2007 at 7:34 AM #114127December 11, 2007 at 8:04 AM #113941BugsParticipant
Sorry, my last post was a little tongue in cheek. I think I’m in the same boat as Cardiffman and while I admire Temeculaguy’s style from afar I can’t really imagine trying to run in his circle.
Outside of my extended family, my social circle is numbered on the fingers of one hand and I have no interest in expanding it. I have no culture (no socially acceptabe culture, anyway) and I have no interest in upgrading it. I can’t imagine changing my life or my priorities to win the approval of a woman and I can’t imagine spending any amount of time to change someone else’s life to fit mine. A relationship either comes together relatively easily or it stops dead at the coffee date. Who in their right mind would spend 2 seconds wondering how to make a high maintenance relationship work?
Marion, you should move on and not give this guy another thought. The prenup is an indicator of a personality that either doesn’t know or doesn’t care how to effectively communicate on your level, and at best represents a remodeling project for you. That’s assuming you buy into the quaint notion that people will change for others. Likewise, you can be sure that you don’t fit his specifications either. A relationship with you would surely involve more work for him than it would be worth.
Based on how you’ve described your expectations, I’m wondering if maybe it would be easier to snag your desired combo if you pushed your maximum acceptable age back 10 or 15 years?
December 11, 2007 at 8:04 AM #114061BugsParticipantSorry, my last post was a little tongue in cheek. I think I’m in the same boat as Cardiffman and while I admire Temeculaguy’s style from afar I can’t really imagine trying to run in his circle.
Outside of my extended family, my social circle is numbered on the fingers of one hand and I have no interest in expanding it. I have no culture (no socially acceptabe culture, anyway) and I have no interest in upgrading it. I can’t imagine changing my life or my priorities to win the approval of a woman and I can’t imagine spending any amount of time to change someone else’s life to fit mine. A relationship either comes together relatively easily or it stops dead at the coffee date. Who in their right mind would spend 2 seconds wondering how to make a high maintenance relationship work?
Marion, you should move on and not give this guy another thought. The prenup is an indicator of a personality that either doesn’t know or doesn’t care how to effectively communicate on your level, and at best represents a remodeling project for you. That’s assuming you buy into the quaint notion that people will change for others. Likewise, you can be sure that you don’t fit his specifications either. A relationship with you would surely involve more work for him than it would be worth.
Based on how you’ve described your expectations, I’m wondering if maybe it would be easier to snag your desired combo if you pushed your maximum acceptable age back 10 or 15 years?
December 11, 2007 at 8:04 AM #114105BugsParticipantSorry, my last post was a little tongue in cheek. I think I’m in the same boat as Cardiffman and while I admire Temeculaguy’s style from afar I can’t really imagine trying to run in his circle.
Outside of my extended family, my social circle is numbered on the fingers of one hand and I have no interest in expanding it. I have no culture (no socially acceptabe culture, anyway) and I have no interest in upgrading it. I can’t imagine changing my life or my priorities to win the approval of a woman and I can’t imagine spending any amount of time to change someone else’s life to fit mine. A relationship either comes together relatively easily or it stops dead at the coffee date. Who in their right mind would spend 2 seconds wondering how to make a high maintenance relationship work?
Marion, you should move on and not give this guy another thought. The prenup is an indicator of a personality that either doesn’t know or doesn’t care how to effectively communicate on your level, and at best represents a remodeling project for you. That’s assuming you buy into the quaint notion that people will change for others. Likewise, you can be sure that you don’t fit his specifications either. A relationship with you would surely involve more work for him than it would be worth.
Based on how you’ve described your expectations, I’m wondering if maybe it would be easier to snag your desired combo if you pushed your maximum acceptable age back 10 or 15 years?
December 11, 2007 at 8:04 AM #114109BugsParticipantSorry, my last post was a little tongue in cheek. I think I’m in the same boat as Cardiffman and while I admire Temeculaguy’s style from afar I can’t really imagine trying to run in his circle.
Outside of my extended family, my social circle is numbered on the fingers of one hand and I have no interest in expanding it. I have no culture (no socially acceptabe culture, anyway) and I have no interest in upgrading it. I can’t imagine changing my life or my priorities to win the approval of a woman and I can’t imagine spending any amount of time to change someone else’s life to fit mine. A relationship either comes together relatively easily or it stops dead at the coffee date. Who in their right mind would spend 2 seconds wondering how to make a high maintenance relationship work?
Marion, you should move on and not give this guy another thought. The prenup is an indicator of a personality that either doesn’t know or doesn’t care how to effectively communicate on your level, and at best represents a remodeling project for you. That’s assuming you buy into the quaint notion that people will change for others. Likewise, you can be sure that you don’t fit his specifications either. A relationship with you would surely involve more work for him than it would be worth.
Based on how you’ve described your expectations, I’m wondering if maybe it would be easier to snag your desired combo if you pushed your maximum acceptable age back 10 or 15 years?
December 11, 2007 at 8:04 AM #114144BugsParticipantSorry, my last post was a little tongue in cheek. I think I’m in the same boat as Cardiffman and while I admire Temeculaguy’s style from afar I can’t really imagine trying to run in his circle.
Outside of my extended family, my social circle is numbered on the fingers of one hand and I have no interest in expanding it. I have no culture (no socially acceptabe culture, anyway) and I have no interest in upgrading it. I can’t imagine changing my life or my priorities to win the approval of a woman and I can’t imagine spending any amount of time to change someone else’s life to fit mine. A relationship either comes together relatively easily or it stops dead at the coffee date. Who in their right mind would spend 2 seconds wondering how to make a high maintenance relationship work?
Marion, you should move on and not give this guy another thought. The prenup is an indicator of a personality that either doesn’t know or doesn’t care how to effectively communicate on your level, and at best represents a remodeling project for you. That’s assuming you buy into the quaint notion that people will change for others. Likewise, you can be sure that you don’t fit his specifications either. A relationship with you would surely involve more work for him than it would be worth.
Based on how you’ve described your expectations, I’m wondering if maybe it would be easier to snag your desired combo if you pushed your maximum acceptable age back 10 or 15 years?
December 11, 2007 at 8:51 AM #113957akbarpunjabiParticipantMy favorite part of her is the fact that if I recall correctly her first post on here was regarding her rental situation that she has not paid rent on in months nor can she even afford to pay that rent because she has already spent it on other bills. Only later did it come out that she stays there because of her children who are attached to the area and their local sexual predator neighbor friends. I just feel bad for any guy that is unfortunate enough to land this winner.
December 11, 2007 at 8:51 AM #114076akbarpunjabiParticipantMy favorite part of her is the fact that if I recall correctly her first post on here was regarding her rental situation that she has not paid rent on in months nor can she even afford to pay that rent because she has already spent it on other bills. Only later did it come out that she stays there because of her children who are attached to the area and their local sexual predator neighbor friends. I just feel bad for any guy that is unfortunate enough to land this winner.
December 11, 2007 at 8:51 AM #114120akbarpunjabiParticipantMy favorite part of her is the fact that if I recall correctly her first post on here was regarding her rental situation that she has not paid rent on in months nor can she even afford to pay that rent because she has already spent it on other bills. Only later did it come out that she stays there because of her children who are attached to the area and their local sexual predator neighbor friends. I just feel bad for any guy that is unfortunate enough to land this winner.
December 11, 2007 at 8:51 AM #114124akbarpunjabiParticipantMy favorite part of her is the fact that if I recall correctly her first post on here was regarding her rental situation that she has not paid rent on in months nor can she even afford to pay that rent because she has already spent it on other bills. Only later did it come out that she stays there because of her children who are attached to the area and their local sexual predator neighbor friends. I just feel bad for any guy that is unfortunate enough to land this winner.
December 11, 2007 at 8:51 AM #114158akbarpunjabiParticipantMy favorite part of her is the fact that if I recall correctly her first post on here was regarding her rental situation that she has not paid rent on in months nor can she even afford to pay that rent because she has already spent it on other bills. Only later did it come out that she stays there because of her children who are attached to the area and their local sexual predator neighbor friends. I just feel bad for any guy that is unfortunate enough to land this winner.
December 11, 2007 at 9:01 AM #113961akbarpunjabiParticipantThis current guy should get a gold star just for making it to the 4th date with you. Why would you ask for dating advice on a real estate blog? You are old enough in years and in actual life experience to know plenty about men by now.
December 11, 2007 at 9:01 AM #114082akbarpunjabiParticipantThis current guy should get a gold star just for making it to the 4th date with you. Why would you ask for dating advice on a real estate blog? You are old enough in years and in actual life experience to know plenty about men by now.
December 11, 2007 at 9:01 AM #114125akbarpunjabiParticipantThis current guy should get a gold star just for making it to the 4th date with you. Why would you ask for dating advice on a real estate blog? You are old enough in years and in actual life experience to know plenty about men by now.
December 11, 2007 at 9:01 AM #114129akbarpunjabiParticipantThis current guy should get a gold star just for making it to the 4th date with you. Why would you ask for dating advice on a real estate blog? You are old enough in years and in actual life experience to know plenty about men by now.
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