Wowwww, I love this advice. I’m going to try these things out – the fact that many of you said similar things, in different ways only strengthened the ideas. Thank you guys very much.
I was telling her the whole time that her actions were speaking different than her words.. and she denied it and wanted to say I was insecure thats why I thought that way. Well now that we’re broken up, she’s showing me exactly how she operates – why would I try and deny it now?! I knew it all along, so theres nothing I can do to change her.. like you guys said, “Beat it! Kick rocks!”.
I talked to her once more around the time I posted the original message and she said the ”I’m going to go to Vegas and have fun.”. With the guy she chatted with during our relationship, who I resisted but she kept saying ”youre so insecure”. I told her I’m far from insecure, I just want a healthy relationship or I want to be in no relationship. Well after she told me this Vegas story again (presumably the guy is flying her out there, because he has rich parents that he bragged to her about once) – I told her that I don’t ever want to talk to her again, and that she should not contact me for any reason. Zero tolerance! Thanks for the wise words again.
