Good post. Not TMI, and this is something EVERYBODY should discuss with their spouses, children and parents. For some reason, our society shuns any discussions about death and dying, to the point that people with young children refuse to get life insurance or set up a trust, will, guardianship, etc. It’s like they think that if they can ignore it (death), then it won’t happen to them.
As for the question… Like TG, we are looking to buy a single-story or a two-story with at least one bedroom/bathroom downstairs. We are really hoping to get a house with a guest unit (like UCGal), which would be ideal.
My parents have passed away, but I expect we’ll take care of my MIL at some point, and want to be prepared.